Errr yeahhh, sorry fl what do excatly you wanted to teach him?

In this case you are the problem, why do you care so much of what maids talk behind your back. They ought to be punished and not you succumbed to the, just to be like. What is wrong with you? And the Ml is right, he would feel sad to be hated with people he thinks important, and maids are not in those category. Before you teach him anything, take a look at your iwn value first. Being a pushover is not a good value to keep!