I feel so bad for Asami and her son imagine your baby father liking your sons rapist hell ...

You feel sorry for a woman who chose to marry a murdering yakuza crime boss?
I don't. She decided that was the guy for her, along with all the crime that came with it.

I feel sorry for the baby--he's innocent.
I feel bad that in the past they had shitty parents and trauma.
I feel bad Rogi got so screwed over as we can tell he's not "all there" in terms of mental health.

But Asami is no saint and no heroine.

So I cant feel bad for her? Did you forget thats also her child so not only is she dead but her babys father lover raped her son. And you saying she aint allowed to be happy? What is wrong with you. I feel bad for her just say you hate women because you dont feel bad for her but fee bad for a rapist talk less

I hate Rogi taking it out on Tats. In fact, until I read Jealousy, I wanted Rogi to be shot in the head. Now, I can feel pity for him as someone constantlhy raped, beaten, abandoned, betrayed. Asami accepts her husband's murderous and unfaithful ways. She's not a victim (unless someone kills her later, of course). She is not constantly betrayed, raped, abandoned, used, lied to....like "young" Rogi. She's a powerful man's wife who knew and knows she cannot be his only one and lives with it.

I like their son. Even as a kid he had a sweet side and he didn't/doesn't want to be yakuza. Born into it, but not suited for it. I'm glad he got a happy ending.

Nah nothing justifys him raping Tats nothing

You basically saying you can forgive him for raping someone because he got raped.. like wtf?

I'm saying I can like the younger Rogi who isn't a rapist.
I can hate the older Rogi for being a rapist.
And I can understand the fucked-up mindset and damage that caused the older Rogi.

You can feel sorry for Asami who knows she's married to a rapist and murderer...and thinks that's fine. So, you're okay with her being okay with murder and rape and theft and extortion and forced prostitution.

Umm what's there to pity rogi for tho? I don't understand why people pity him at all. Like he made his own choices and whatever happened to him were the consequences of his choices.. And he repeatedly made the same mistakes so what's there to pity