Lol being the eldest is like putting out a perfect image that ppl want to see, so that you don’t bring down your parents reputation. And taking care of other ppl before you can take care of yourself. Doing selfless work and being called mature, calm and very flexible while you’re doing it because no one else is going to do it. You’re caretakers of your own parents and siblings. Well, it’s really exhausting mentally and physically because you have to be there for ppl and understand them when they can’t be there for you and try to understand you.
Lol being the eldest is like putting out a perfect image that ppl want to see, so that you don’t bring down your parents reputation. And taking care of other ppl before you can take care of yourself. Doing selfless work and being called mature, calm and very flexible while you’re doing it because no one else is going to do it. You’re caretakers of your own parents and siblings. Well, it’s really exhausting mentally and physically because you have to be there for ppl and understand them when they can’t be there for you and try to understand you.