Put it in perspective

greensilverscarf May 26, 2021 10:09 am

https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangatopic/12566987/

I am adding or rather clarifying details about Taejoo's new bf. Yoon & Taejoo's first meeting in the restaurant was awful but I want to remind ppl Taejoo has no clue at all what Yoon had been through. He thought he just disappeared on him & was ready to lash out. At this part, the new bf KNOWS Yoon was in a coma & is alive, so when he tagged along with the reunion, he wanted to hurt Yoon on purpose. He knows the guy just woke up from coma but the first thing he wanna do is flaunt that he successfully nabbed Taejoo.


The emotional manipulation he orchestrated is just horrible. Taejoo was depressed & out of his damn mind looking for his greatest love & it made it easier to manipulate him. Like what I said in my previous topic, he's trying to convince himself he made the right decision. Adding to this is the new bf's constant whining & nagging about his insecurity. Honestly if Taejoo is the MC, a lot of ppl would be on his team. I hope he snaps out of his new bf's guilt tripping & MOVE ON. Yoon is his past & he needs to let go as well.

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    maychan May 26, 2021 12:58 pm

    again Tea choose to bring his new bf to this meeting despite the asshole has nothing to do with this! and he still chooses to treat Yoon like he did and he did know he was in a coma, if he didn't how did he manage to blame him for being in a coma?!
    and don't say he didn't blame him, he did in the text blame him.
    he still chooses to end it in such a disgusting way even if he thought the guy disappear on him, he still should have listened to his side of the story!
    still his fault so he has to live with his mistakes! and that's fine, there is no need to try and say he wasn't at fault at all! it is Tea fault and he is paying for it now, and that's okay. he will learn and get better with time.

    greensilverscarf May 26, 2021 5:27 pm

    'Taejoon' didn't honestly know Yoon was in a coma, he just learned that was the case during their first meeting after 5 years. You can read chapter 1 again to verify that.

    And I think you're not getting my point. I've wrote in the topic I linked that I acknowledge Taejoon was an ass to Yoon. However you're too engrossed in Yoon's POV that you can't even consider Taejoon's perspective. In no way I am saying he's faultless, but his new bf is largely at fault with how things turned out.

    Taejoon thought he raped the new bf, so he said he'll take responsibility. New bf didn't correct this, and went along with it because he's obsessed with Taejoon. New bf also knew Yoon was in a coma but he didn't tell Taejoon. So all the while Taejoon is distressed looking for Yoon, he just withheld the truth & pretended to comfort Taejoon. New bf also constantly whined about his insecurity towards Yoon so that Taejoon would take his side. Tae felt indebted to his new bf as well, thinking he helped him not knowing he was lied to. As a result, Tae felt he had to make it up to the new bf & agreed to stay with him.

    Taejoon is a victim of emotional manipulation, & as a result, he treated Yoon harshly because he wanted to convince himself he made the right decision. Yes, it's his fault too but had that red haired guy told him the truth, I don't think things will happen like it did. I'm explaining Taejoon's psychosis, not glorifying him. So even though he hurt Yoon, I do not harbor ill feelings towards him. I just hope he'll move on. I don't even root for him to be the endgame, because he's not what Yoon needs. Yoon loves his career & Taejoon is against it in fear of Yoon's life - which makes them not compatible, imo.

    maychan May 26, 2021 6:07 pm
    'Taejoon' didn't honestly know Yoon was in a coma, he just learned that was the case during their first meeting after 5 years. You can read chapter 1 again to verify that. And I think you're not getting my poin... greensilverscarf

    it doesn't really matter if Tae was a victim or not though. he could still end things with Yoon in a much nicer way more human way! and now he wants Yoon back, don't expect me to care about it.
    I don't care about Tae, again I'm not saying he is the worst, but what he did to Yoon is still too horrible and unforgivable for me! again for me, I just can't forgive him for blaming Yoon after finding out he WAS IN A FUCKING COMA!
    he should fix himself first before even trying to get close to Yoon on anyone else. he is a mass, not his fault, but he should have to get rid of these toxic people in his life a long time before meeting with Yoon! right after he notice this person trying to force you to forget your past, but that Tae still needs to learn.

    greensilverscarf May 26, 2021 10:03 pm
    it doesn't really matter if Tae was a victim or not though. he could still end things with Yoon in a much nicer way more human way! and now he wants Yoon back, don't expect me to care about it. I don't care abo... maychan

    I'm sorry but the point really just whooshes over you. I get it, you hate Taejoo & you're not capable of seeing things in his perspective. Blame him for not being able to cut ppl off his life while not being mentally & emotionally unstable. I'm not even arguing that he's faultless, because he has a lot of those, I'm just stating he's also a victim, but you said it doesn't matter. What are you trying to say, exactly? Because if it's your hatred towards Taejoo's character, I know that already. Do you want me to think the same as you do....??

    Things are not black & white. My main point was about the new bf's manipulation of Taejoo & how it affected things but you dislike Taejoo so much that you didn't even try to comprehend.

    maychan May 26, 2021 11:50 pm
    I'm sorry but the point really just whooshes over you. I get it, you hate Taejoo & you're not capable of seeing things in his perspective. Blame him for not being able to cut ppl off his life while not bein... greensilverscarf

    I said what matter is actions in the end of the day. what makes Tae actions until now better in any way, shape or form? other than him feel sorry for himself. was it anyone fault he is doing those stupid shit? no!

    if he can't raise himself, there is no one that can! Yoon has much he got "help" he still knows when to cut it off and move himself up, and trust me Yoon had it harder and worse than Tae. so I won't feel pitty on Tae, he didn't do anything that deserves it.