The princess is really pitiful and ye he’s mean smts it’s not his fault that he can’...

its really unreasonable for him to trauma dumping on her even though she did nothing wrong, ur just projecting

No it’s not ppl do it all the fuckin time famous ppl do it ppl do it to their husbands wives and all dat so and plus that probably ain’t happen before he lost his money and he likes her but it’s just hard for him to communicate with ppl and he ain’t dropping on her he not yelling at her that his life was hard and u living like royalty and etc... and he probably Doing cuz it’s probably his first real relationship

yk what its not her problem to endure his bullshit and he also failed to notice or even try to put a stop to his own wife's suicides so even if hes hot or whatever this entire thing is 90% his fault. and, just bc people do it all the time doesnt mean its fine

It’s not 90% of his fault did he put them in debt ? No her family only pretend to care about her they used her and I never said it was fine and he wasn’t there to help her and idk y she was so hurt all he said was that he was busy so she could sit on her ass all day and not have to work even after he lost all that money and not everyone uk is going to know if something is wrong and it’s not like she’s getting abused or Verbally abused by him cuz he barely there so she’s not enduring anything from him she just can’t stand up for her self and that’s sad also u don’t know if he’s enduring shii just because of her and it’s not like he’s taking his past out in her so that part is wrong the only thing he’s past did was mess up his character soo...

so ur telling me she should just suck it up? pls remember he also told her she has to pay back her debt (which is 100% not really hers in the first place) or he will never divorce. that doesn't seem really toxic to you? also he's not enduring shit he's just ignorant. and sorry that's not how love works and u r seriously internalized misogynistic

Not only is it toxic it is absolutely out-fucking-rageous that he would do this to another person. Like, come on I mean I've made my rant in another comment but seems like this'll be needed again...

[*puts on glasses and cracks knuckles before typing*]

1)This was a marriage of convenience which ended in a lack of benefits for either party. Most of all for the ML I understand that not getting what you want sucks but, even still his WIFE stood by him and was willing to stand with him through the aftermath. Ya wanna know what happened? She got stuck dealing with all that shit. All the backlash of a broken promise on her fucking own. While he left without even a note saying where he was going or what the fuck he was doing.

2)She is by herself in a different part of the country. With no friends, no family, not even her lover to help her adjust to the changes that can be stressful on any person realistically. Oh, and let's not forget that for 3 straight years she was bullied and harassed for being married to this assclown was constantly singularly blamed for her father's incompetence and her brother's opportunistic behaviors. How did we forget that even her own servants were fucking clowning on her and her doctor didn't take her seriously when she said she was unwell. How much does a person have to take to be labeled as fucking strong? Because I think she's done a fine ass job of sticking it out for as long as she did without popping off on those bitches or just popping a cap in the ML's head for being a neglectful husband.

3)When I say he's neglectful I don't mean he doesn't try to provide for her physically so don't come for me but it is obvious that he is emotionally incompetent and even more so naive as to not notice the hundred red flags that surround his wife. The first time he changes bodies he is in a room in disarray on the ground lay dozens of pills in giant bottles along with alcohol anyone with a brain knows you aren't supposed to take any medication with alcohol. So just what in blazes did he think she was trying to do. Hell, he never even asks about it. It's forgotten never to be spoken of again. The same goes for the second switch. The CONTEXT of the situation was gifted to him. He didn't even need to do any math to figure out what she was doing and yet the only thing that stuck out to him was that there was a horse and "I don't know how to ride a horse, she did this on purpose..." This motherfucker either doesn't give a fuck or he really is a fucking idiot either way it's not looking good for this bastard.

4)Why is this bitch always interrupting her when she is trying to have a god damn conversation. Not only that but he keeps taking what she says and twisting it into an insult without ever asking what she means or any kind of clarification. He just stomps off and leaves her there. And it ALWAYS happens in fucking public. Where she is left to listen to the whisper of her peers. HE NEVER EVEN THINKS ABOUT THIS. This isn't even a thought that crosses his mind. He is recently taking more interest in her...but still isn't in the way that she needs and she's going to realize that. He is taking more interest in her physically but as for emotionally they have barely gotten anywhere and can't progress till little bitch baby stops popping off before she can get a coherent thought out. When you switched, she just said "I think it could be because you have magic in your blood because of your race..." He fucking lost it and said she was implying that his blood was filthy which she never once said nor implied at all I mean once again context and the situation taking place. She was obviously brainstorming and ya know what SHE WAS FUCKING RIGHT! Do you see the problem with their relationship?

Alright...now to the person that this comment is replying to I didn't mean to rant at you it was the original one that you had also commented on...but I couldn't find it and wasn't going to look for it tbh. So, if you want you can reply with your thoughts or copy-paste this reply to the person who prattled off the original nonsense. I always say never to compare trauma and never once did I do that. I just said that they have both gone through some shit and they need to acknowledge the issues in the relationship. The only reason it mainly focuses on his flaws is that the narrative is from the woman's perspective.

Have a good day!ヾ(≧▽≦*)o

First u could’ve easily summarize this and I’m confused how was she standing by him what is she doing that shows that still being married to someone and not taking action doesn’t seem like that while she not doing anything she could find a way to fix the problems and even if she wanted to divorce then her family wouldn’t have let her obviously and killing urself because ur husband is not paying attention to u is so dumb and not all ur friends have to be rich or high class and obviously his trauma is holding him back and y’all not being patient with him like tf u think someone’s gonna change over night and he obviously likes her he even said sum like that during the wedding and without him her and her family probably would’ve been dead and he maybe don’t like ppl talking bout his origin cuz ppl like her like to talk shii

well, there was actually a flashback scene with them on the dining table and she was actually trying to be nice to her husband who just got fraud. and yeah he walked away (very emo and cold). second, she didn't commit suicide because her husband doesn't give her attention, it's because he was supposed to protect her, the only person she could actually rely on a little (considering he IS HER LAWFULLY WEDDED HUSBAND) where absolutely nobody likes her and shun her to death so, u tell me princess.

No, I couldn't easily summarize because clearly, we aren't reading the same story. You have yet to realize the lack of power she holds in her situation. This is a historical manhua she as a woman only can do so much on her own. She will need support. You say
"not all ur friends have to be rich or high class"
and you're right but as I stated previously, everyone she is surrounded by blames her for her husband's "debt" if you read the story you'd know that they are too scared to get caught up in that kind of nonsense. They don't want to get on the duke(?)'s bad side by being closer with his wife. So they will talk shit to her and constantly make her feel lesser. Bullying they are bullying and bullied her to death. This is someone who has gone years without a support system. Basic the most basic psychology is that we need a support system in order to function. A person needs to feel safe and secure in order to be happy. He has not once protected her from the harassment she had received instead he constantly whether he meant to or not had belittled her and made her feel lesser. He did not once take time to really get to know her and so she could never get to know him in return. She has tried and has pushed and he pushed back negatively. What is she to do? Where can she go if she's backed into a corner? How are you going to get out of a situation or fix a problem where you are being gaslit to hell from your spouse, your family, your in-laws, and strangers who don't even know you? How are you going to cope? Please tell me how are you going to get out of a marriage that can only be held if both parties agree and 9/10 falling in the man's favor since this is historical in a patriarchal society? You say, "he obviously likes her he even said sum like that during the wedding" tell me what he said? Tell me what was so memorable about some words over three years of neglect? You also stated in your response, "without him her and her family probably would’ve been dead" So what she's supposed to suck up all the hatred and heartache she's feeling and what be grateful? That is some of the most cold-hearted bullshit I have ever heard in my lifetime. She has tried asking him to dances, dates, diner, breakfast. This woman has tried to make time to spend with him. He never had taken the initiative. He only saw and did what he wanted and never once asked what she wanted. He thought that she wanted dresses when she wanted conversation. He thought I'll throw money at the issue till it goes away and made it fucking worse. This is a story about complex emotions and mental health and how the lack of it deteriorates the mind. At least that is what I've gotten from it so far. I'm going to need you to reassess your relationships if you think any of the shit he did was alright.
The last thing I wanted to say was, I'm not comparing trauma. He did that for me. He did that when he ranted about how she had never been put in slavery, physically abused, or treated lesser. When in actuality she was being held in a marriage she no longer desired, was being emotionally neglected which is a form of abuse, and was being treated lesser by her husband and the people around her. It is only in recent chapters that she is even being looked at and it is only by the 1/100000000 chance that she came back to life to switch bodies with her husband. If this had been any other story and had gone any other way he'd have been a widow left to stupidly wonder how he'd let this woman slip away from him in his own home not realizing he would and has played a factor in each of her fucking suicides.
The first suicide was after once again being forced to face his family which obviously despises her alone.
The second is the happened when she had pleaded for his help after being locked in a closet for fucking hours. Not only did he never look for her but he didn't even seem to care. He slapped her hand and sent her away. Fucking hilarious! It's only when it was too late and she was gone did he notice the blood on his hand...and welp the kicker of that scene was that the one in the body that noticed the blood wasn't him at all it was her the wife had switched bodies again. She went and confronted her brother in his body for herself. You want us to take it easy on the male lead but he has yet to show or prove any kind of redeeming qualities to us that makes him befitting as a decent candidate for her. So how about you explain why I should have any kind of sympathy for someone who knows how they desire to be treated but can not display those actions to one he is to spend the rest of his life with. Whatever happened to the GOLDEN FUCKING RULE!