
What exactly would be used in their place? If I'm looking for a BL that is safe for work I look for shonen-ai. If I want something more explicit, there's yaoi. Then there's smut and we all know what that means but in all seriousness is there another more appropriate term to use when referring to what I would describe by the names shonen-ai/yaoi?

Yaoi/shounen-ai are outdated terms...other ppl mostly in the west misinterpreted it ,,, no one in Japan uses it... It's all BL whether it has explicit scenes or not... Well it's up to you if u want to use it... But trust me they'll be all confused and will misunderstood it as gay porn... Which is sad...
Like the guy right here... Asking in the comments if it is bl or shounen-ai... He already misunderstood BL as gay smut

for example; a shounen ai in my head would be like banana fish and yuri on ice ( dont get me wrong i wish they were gay. ) meanwhile given and doukyuusei would be bl's bc we see them do gay stuff. i hope yall are watching animes bc i dont want to create more confusion. im maybe wrong i learned the definition a long time ago.

Ok but banana fish and yuri on ice are not considered as a shounen-ai.....
On other side, Given, and Dokyuusei are shounen-ai... "ai" means love and shounen-ai means BL or Boy's Love...
BL = shounen-ai & yaoi
Yaoi=gay/ has explicit scenes / rated 18+
Shounen-ai = gay/all ages / they basically doesn't show any explicit scenes but kisses are allowed
is this a bl or just shounen ai?