
Hmm i often feels irked to when i found someone think too much about someone who have bad attitude to them.
I can understand why she act like that, in winterwald she is no one, even if her status is a mom of heir. She is a stranger in people home, prestigous place, she is an inferior. That is why she feels the need not to make your benevolent name dirty or make them feels like you are a burden.
She just not have high dignity or expectant of herself, she is the kind of people who never think herself is important or helpful. It need more time or a moment to made them realist how important they are.

Honestly I get it. Reading about an MC who is constantly getting bull-dozed by various characters ranging from her love interest to even her nephew is rather irritating. It feels like the MC is constantly being made out to be an idiot despite being an adult woman, but to be fair, she is largely out of her depth. On the bright side, at least they've started healthy communication and sharing their ideals and value systems, even if he hasn't quite learned to compromise yet. Doe I agree that her attraction to a domineering man like Ruediger might rub some people the wrong way. I hope that changes and MC gets her moments to shine.
As someone who have no much patients or anger issue, that kind of man like Rudiger is really frustasted me. (● ̄(エ) ̄●)