he jumped on him first tho
Exactly.. I understand what you mean about consent but he literally jumped him so if feel the need to blame someone don’t just let it be the top
Oh btw I was agreeing with you :)
ok? that’s still not consent. he could’ve drove him home and put him in bed where he could rest and sober up
ok?.
Exactly. He shouldn't have decided to go all the way with him. Iro wasn't even fully conscious. The one who is sober should know better.
he did say no at first and continue doing what the uke started first
thank you i feel the same way the blame should be disturbuted
I understand what y’all mean by that but it still wasn’t completely his fault all this is to be distributed so yeah there wasn’t consent but both parties are to blame even if it’s just a little and before you say something about real life I haven’t known one person who get on top of someone when intoxicated including myself
Exactly
I disagree with the notion of the blame being equal. To a certain extent Iro was careless but the responsibility partially fell on the boss to stop before things went too far. By the end of the scene, he was definitely in control of the situation to be able to stop. Both parties not consenting initially doesn't mean one fully conscious person could continue doing non-consensual acts on the other person, who is less conscious due to alcohol and relatively weaker.
bro he’s literally drunk??? he can’t control himself, but the sober one can. he should know better when to stop and think
next time ask him for consent instead of doing that shit when he’s drunk