*Honk

It’s more Like abusing your partner and saying that it’s sex so it’s okay.

i wouldn't say abuse but that was definitely not ok, taking out your anger on your partner during sex or otherwise isn't ok. be healthy people an talk it out after you've calmed down

Abuse can also be taking out your anger on someone, even though it’s sex

Well even though the seme was understanding and good to him it doesn't mean he doesn't have that kind of personality, and when it comes to bL mostly hardcore sex it their way of punishment (unless the uke is an M) I wouldn't like it if it's that kind of abuse where there'll be punching, slapping, kicking , etc.

abuse is a repeated act, well if we look at the context so that's why i wouldn't really use the word abuse bc as far as we know/ have been shown this is the firs t time he did it, if he does it again then it would be abuse

Wtf? Abuse is abuse. Don’t try to sugarcoat it

I'm not sugarcoating it look up the definition of the word, what he did is considered to be him being violent or aggressive towards his partner

Being violent and aggressive is abuse wtf

abuse is a repeated act

Being a survivor from abuse, no it isn’t. Abuse comes in many ways, you saying that is extremely offensive. Abuse always starts somewhere, no matter if it’s the first time or not.