
it was just a comment/post in a subreddit so i cant find it from like last year but basically one time they were drinking and the husband got drunk and revealed to her that he basically manipulated her into having a relationship with him (i think it was like he created situations etc where he can help her and stuff) this happened like a decade or so into their marriage

cant believe i found it but omg here u go https://rareddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/g48qpi/i_32f_found_out_last_night_that_my_husband_37m/
reminds me of that creepy reddit post about a woman who found out like a decade after being married to a man that the man manipulated her into having a relationship with him