If my boy (the seme) gets hurt I will be SO MAD. Dongho is giving off bad vibes, he’s no...

Well Dong Ho is hurt too. And the blushing things i feel that it is kind of a Dong Ho's thing. I love both Jaehwan and Dongho but those two are having a problem here so we cant just take side. Jaehwan did go out with his crush and got angry at Dongho, that really hit a lot and made Dongho thought ab their relationship. I felt as if u were in love, u would know what i am trying to say. So please dont hate on anyone. I love my baby Dongho and I love Jaehwan, their story seems really close to me too.

What Seojin did was still within the boundary, just look at Jinchool, he is not even gay, he sleep on his arms, and also casually hug Soejin, that's normal between friends, but what Jaehwan did is he met with his old crush, and as if is not enough, when his old crush beg him to stay, he couldn't say no, forgetting his promise with Dong Hoo, while he is busy taking care of his drunk old crush, he didn't even bother to inform Dong Hoo, make him waiting for hours, and when Dong Hoo ask him, he said 'is not your business', WTF, if Dong Hoo know the truth, imagine how hurts he is gonna be.

Everything you said here was almost BS. Speaking from the fact I have been in a relationship, trust and communication is the most important thing. Problems are normal and they often occur in relationships so you can’t just use that as an excuse. Jaehwan didn’t want to go out with his ex crush and he didn’t make a move. If anything just because that happened doesn’t mean that you need to rethink your relationship especially if it’s out of context. All it means is that you need to communicate more. Take that advice for dating or else nothing will work out :)

This is also complete BS. You can clearly tell the sunbae is trying to make a move without knowing any information up until now. Jaehwan didn’t want to meet up with his old crush as you can literally see the tension in the air. He thought they could be just friends again which is completely healthy and normal. He might not have had any romantic connection to his ex crush but he did still have a personal one which is why he couldn’t leave him drunk. He didn’t inform Dong Hoo because he didn’t know what to say and how’d he react. That’s also healthy. It’s healthy to worry about your partner if you really love them. The only thing that really broke them apart was miscommunication. All of you say the exact same thing but none of it is what actually would break a relationship. It’s literally all miscommunication which could be simply fixed. It’s their choice, BOTH of them not just Jaehwan (cuz y’all love to make him seem horrible), if they communicate with each other.

What do you mean the Sunbae make a move, he didn't even know he is gay just like what he said to his friend 'I may developed things for guys now', so far he only thought about Dong Hoo as a 'cute thing', he even confused about his feelings. It would be obvious if it between men and woman but when it's the same sex how do you know the other person is flirting or just being friendly. I'm girls, my friends is also the clingy type, every time we walk together, she would hold my hand or even hugging me, and she also put her head on my shoulder when we watch a movie, should I think she make a move then?

Bro, when u've said all of that I knew that u werent a type to overthink in relationship and that is okay. But that doesnt mean that everybody else would feel like u.
I maybe bias, i dont know, but from my pov when i saw the comment that hate on DongHo, whom I can see my pastself, I felt the thoughts, the feelings that Dongho is having so I just said what I felt and maybe what Dongho felt.
Yes communication is important, of course I know that, I clearly know that, but did Jaehwan did a good job at that ??? NO ! So am I using that as an excuse for Dongho ? Fck no ? Can u see that in this relationship Dongho IS the one that talk more ab their problems??? So how the f is that an excuse for Dongho, that is an excuse for Jaehwan. Bro dont get me started, I felt for both of them but I am defending for Dongho because so here is clearly hate on him. So let me tell u what i think they are thinking.

Dongho, the one that liked Jaehwan first, confessed that he liked Jaehwan many times before they began dating and NEVER heard those 3 magical words. Yes itd definitely made him felt insecure, why do i know that? Because I f was. Sure he need to talk ab that, of course every f person in that situation would definitely get a table and talk things out immidiately. HELL NO, I AM BEING SARCASTIC

I wrote all of that at 2am so dont f yell at me or try to argue if u havent read it all ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ
Jk ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶ its ur choice to read or not but I hope ud understand my pov and maybe their pov.

And yes all those insecure could made u rethink ab ur relationship, its a human feelings and thoughts, u cannot control that? When u r happy together is fine, but when u r not the overthinking will eat u like nom nom.

And yes I had been the one to communicate in my previous relationship and guess what, it didnt work out. Dont u f dare tell me that i did it wrong cuz i didnt. My ex told me to talk ab any anxiety that i had and she'd gladly hear me out. I mustered up my courage and told her lil by lil what i felt and I realized that I was the only one that talked. I told her that too but maybe she was just worried ab me so she didnt talk much, i said that to myself. And then that day came when she looked at me and told me that i was selfish, i only knew me and my problems, Ive been afraid of that day my whole life but she made me trusted her. Maybe it was just words from anger but it affected me a lot, since then I didnt really talk much anymore. We broke up. I dont blame her, pp get angry and say things, nobody could just always hold it in.

So the lesson might be communication need to be from both side? So why are u just taggerting Dongho huh? Huh?

Sorry for the long story. Pls look at pp with love and sympathy, try put urself in their shoes not try put them in ur shoes. Love u.

I’m sorry but what are you even saying? I’m sorry but I didn’t sign up for your sob story. When did I target Dongho even? Go to sleep and rethink what you said. If you actually read and comprehended what I said you’d know what I meant. I’m sorry your relationship didn’t work out? What you want me to say I did, I’ve been in both places before and I can say communication is still key. Don’t go around assuming shit you don’t know. I’m not sure if YOUR understanding both POVs. Think about that.

What I meant by making a move is trying to be close to him in that sense. We can see his thoughts as a reader so it’s not like it’s irl where we don’t know if he would just want to be friendly. I’m speaking from reader POV.

Imma stop you right there, when did I hate on DongHo Yall are fr being over dramatic. All I was saying is that try to see from both perspectives? That’s it. Literally to sun it up. You guys are acting like DongHo is the only one hurt or sun and when I said something about it I’m hating on DongHo now? Alright

Bro the first comment was hating on Dongho so we were trying to defend for Dongho and then u came out and told me i was BS or some shit. Dont u understand? I wasnt even hating on Jaehwan, I just want the first person to see from Dongho's pov too. So when u came in like that it didnt look like u wanted us to see from both side, it looked like u hating on Dongho. Seriously wtf wrong with u? Sorry for telling my story to an unknown person, I wish I didnt cuz u are so rude. Im turning the noti off.

How am I rude for telling the truth? You’re just being overdramatic as fuck. Y’all literally sit there and victimize DongHo and hate on Jaehwan with no good reason. I’m not gonna sit here and lie to you and tell you that what y’all said ain’t BS turn your notifications off idgaf why do you think that affects me

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but not when you claimed it as 'The Truth' while regard others as 'Bullshit', that's what we call 'Rude'. Everyone have different perspective, from your POV maybe what Jaehwan did isn't really a big deal, since he have no intention to cheat, he just met with his old crush, can't say no when he ask to stay longer for the old time sake even though he has prior engagement with Dongho, taking care of his drunkard old crush as a matter of 'courtesy' or maybe just a habit, he didn't say anything in case Dongho got hurt or something (doesn't make him blameless though, he could at least send a text saying he is gonna be late), just like you said as a reader it easy to know all that, but what about Dongho, all he know is he is being stood up for hours, did Dongho got mad at Jaehwan and accuse him of some shit? No, all he did was asking him why he is so late but Jaehwan got angry at him instead saying it's not his business, of course Dongho would question what's the point of them dating.

It's also the same about the Sunbae, as the reader it's obvious the Sunbae has some kind of interest, whatever it is, but how should Dongho knows that, when everyone around him did exactly the same thing, just like the first couple (forgot their name) both also like to pet his head, feeding him, although at first he is being a jerk, but still they are sweet and affectionate to him, so it's understandable that he thinks the Sunbae just being friendly. In real life people don't normally jumping into conclusion 'oh, he is making a move, I should keep him in check' when a friends with the same gender asking them to hang out together or hug them or something, unless everyone around you is gay. But why make him look like a cheater just because he is blushing, heck he even blushing when the old couple (the one who cleans the motel) pet his head.

Why would you write an essay this ain’t English class mamas.... besides what I call the truth isn’t my opinion. It’s in the story. Everything I said was literally in the story. So when I said other things that were said was bullshit I’m not lying. You can have your opinion I could care less, but when you say something that makes it seem as if you ain’t even read the story that’s when I say it’s bullshit. I said what I said.

Literally my only opinion is that the Sunbae is suspicious which people can argue with. You can’t argue with shit that’s in the story.

Do you even read others comment, why do I feel like we are only keep going in circle? Look, we are arguing about Dongho giving off bad vibes by not keeping the Sunbae in check, we depended Dongho based on his perspective, not from 'readers who know it all' perspective. I honestly don't know what your point is, you only keep saying 'bullshit', without proper solid argument. The story itself left a room for interpretation, just like the OP interpreted Dongho blushing as a sign of flirting with the Sunbae, others see it as 'Dongho things' cause he also blushed when other character being sweet to him. But why do you keep talking like everything is black and white.