As awesome as Chiitan is, I understand where Bee-san is coming from. I was in a similar situation with a guy I talked to online. He seemed very responsible, respectful, and he is in a secure financial situation. However after some time he'd act really pushy and talk about all these future plans he had for us and I freaked out. Like chill out we haven't even met once in person and you already want me to spend Thanksgiving with you and your family, or constantly say you wish we were living together, keep offering to pay my flight to come meet you, and how you want to go on a road trip vacation when we've never met face to face before? Calm your dick, sir.
I was in the same situation as you were once too, with a guy who I was chatting with on discord and it got really nasty so I'm glad I dipped out before he tried to get my address and fly to where I live and stalk me, so all my respect to you!
As awesome as Chiitan is, I understand where Bee-san is coming from. I was in a similar situation with a guy I talked to online. He seemed very responsible, respectful, and he is in a secure financial situation. However after some time he'd act really pushy and talk about all these future plans he had for us and I freaked out. Like chill out we haven't even met once in person and you already want me to spend Thanksgiving with you and your family, or constantly say you wish we were living together, keep offering to pay my flight to come meet you, and how you want to go on a road trip vacation when we've never met face to face before? Calm your dick, sir.