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I agree some comments are questionable
of course it doesn't justify this behaviour, doesn't mean u have to feel bad for a fictional character??? I realise my wording can be taken badly but I clearly didn't mean "hahahahahahhahqahabqa he deserves to be raped what an idiot".
My frustration was from the fact that 99% of their interaction is sex, Jurgen is likely a spy, and Jurgen has been stated in story to be distracting, so yes, trying to break up with him and then immediately agree to spend a week with him is a stupid idea. Its not "excusing shitty behaviour" or rape, its called being exasperated with the actions of the fictional main character. I can think the MC is an idiot and still find Jurgen's actions wrong.
I don't know about you, but I don't look to fiction for my ideals in relationships, I look for interesting stories. I don't think its right to insinuate something like that over reactions to espionage BL.
Damn, boy went full yandere on Johannes. I think it's hilarious some of the comments are like 'I have no sympathy for Johannes because he lied to Juergen then decided to stay with him for a week.' Like, as if lying somehow justifies Juergen tying him up and essentially raping him (and yes, this is basically rape. Johannes made it quite clear that he didn't want it).
Don't get me wrong, it was hot af. But Johannes didn't 'deserve' this just because he tried to break up with Juergen. I fear for some of ya'll when you get into your own relationships considering the amount of shitty behavior you try to excuse.