Ngl if the fl was my mother i’d never forgive her personally. I know she had depression ...

Boxbox June 11, 2021 1:41 pm

Ngl if the fl was my mother i’d never forgive her personally. I know she had depression and stuff which i feel bad for her because she didn’t deserve it but i still don’t think her actions are jjustified just bc of that. Imagine how he felt for years growing up without his mother’s love and only seeing her hate him but when he already grew up without his parent’s love she decides to treat him nice and make peace between them. I understand her perspective and it’s really great that she changed for the better but i’m just deciding to see this situation from HIS perspective because he was just an innocent child who had his childhood taken away by both his mom and his ugly ass loser dad which btw i dont even wanna start talking abt how much i hate the dad. And some people are getting mad at him for being mad at her occasionally but he has every reason to, even if he forgives her doesn’t mean he’s gonna forget how she treated him ever since he was born and it’s normal that even when he’s good with her he’ll remember how he was treated and get angry or frustrated. Ik ppl might disagree with me but nothing will change my mind so pls dont try to argue with me abt this. Also if anyone says “she also had her life taken away when he was born’ etc yes that’s true and i do feel horrible for her but there’s a difference, they CHOSE to have him and he DIDNT choose to be born, even if he had a choice no kid would want to be born and live that kind of life while being treated like that

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    All about the love June 11, 2021 4:49 pm

    U know that true I ran isn't he 15 or smthn now gosh my my mother neglected me for so long I wouldn't even wanna hold her hand much less breathe the same air as her and did the mother even apologized for doing that? And she never explained anything either though explaining wouldn't be enough to justify her actions that much sh still partied she could've look at her son once in a while haa I just don't blam the son for acting all cold he must feel rlly uncomfortable

    Boxbox June 13, 2021 9:27 pm
    U know that true I ran isn't he 15 or smthn now gosh my my mother neglected me for so long I wouldn't even wanna hold her hand much less breathe the same air as her and did the mother even apologized for doing ... All about the love

    Exactlyy!! He was forced to grow up too early and didnt even live his childhood bc of both of his parents but now she acts suprised that he isnt always warm to her. Poor boy is still confused and honestly just like u said he must be uncomfortable bc his mom trying to act all close with him isnt any different than a stranger who hated you before trying to act lovely dovely together with u when they havent even apologized