Ahhh bottom shaming

Elle Aline June 12, 2021 11:46 pm

This incredibly homophobic and misogynistic. Taking the bottom role and "being the woman" is always seen as something embarrassing and emasculating. First: There's no woman in an mlm relationship. Second: if taking the woman's role is so embarrassing, why don't you stop having sex with them, huh? It's so so bad to do what they do but you still want them to do it? Why is everything related to women in some way embarrassing and emasculating? Being a bottom has nothing to do with women or with your personality, it's just a sexual preference.
No shame on the author, they haven't given me the impression that they think that way, this is just an incredibly common theme and often played as a joke and I really don't like it

Responses
    Pol June 12, 2021 11:49 pm

    BRO THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS. ITS SO ANNOYING AND NO ONE SEEMS TO BE CONCERNED ABT THIS WAY OF THINKING? NOT EVEN IRL BUT IN THIS VERY COMMENT SECTION, LIKE THIS IS A BL THEY ARE TWO **GUYS** JESUS

    Elle Aline June 12, 2021 11:56 pm
    BRO THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS. ITS SO ANNOYING AND NO ONE SEEMS TO BE CONCERNED ABT THIS WAY OF THINKING? NOT EVEN IRL BUT IN THIS VERY COMMENT SECTION, LIKE THIS IS A BL THEY ARE TWO **GUYS** JESUS Pol

    Yes!! So many people are blindly reciprocating this "omg gay is ok but don't be the woman haha" thing and think it's funny and ok. Y'all should know better about mlm....

    Pol June 12, 2021 11:59 pm
    Yes!! So many people are blindly reciprocating this "omg gay is ok but don't be the woman haha" thing and think it's funny and ok. Y'all should know better about mlm.... Elle Aline

    Plus it's a lot of women reading this....are you not upset about them viewing the "woman" of the relationship as lesser somehow?? It don't sit right with me

    Ⓓⓘⓝⓞⓢⓞⓡ June 13, 2021 1:47 am

    I was thinking the same thing ( ̄∇ ̄")