I feel like a lot of what happens in manga is they don't touch base on that subject. They don't explain or interpret WHY they end up doing self destruction ect. Like people who don't know mental health issues aren't going to know whats its like until the writer puts US the readers in that head space and explain what it is/how it effects her. They always go with how the characters feel and such without creating the mood. So in 1 managa I ready they kinda had a representation of depression and it was this big black scribbley background and u could interpret that that background is the FEELING <ie depression> and thats why they make thoes destruction/ dessissions or don't understand ect ect
Let me know if this makes sense.
But tldr I wish manga artist would explain show litteraly SHOW us whats happening in the persons headspace when it comes to mental health issues. Rather than thoughts bc those thoughts aren't going to make sense to people who aren't mentally ill-
Or sometimes they aren't convied well
Yes I understand your pov. And tbh, I think most of the authors out there also didn't have actual "experiences" of mental illness. Like maybe they only heard about it, researched it, or it was their friends or familes that ill.. not themselves.
And, well, even for us, it was hard to describe. For me, I realized how blessed I am with my life but it didn't stop me for trying to kill myself in the past(≧∀≦) my doctor once ask why I want to do it, and I just answered dunno I just want to. LOL my youth phew..
So for an example.. an author only listen to this, my story, they can only write it on as "something that hurt sooo much that she want to die but others won't understand her" without capability to explaining properly why it hurts me.
Did I make sense? LOL..
My comment is for those over-haters..
There are people who called Tia as bitch, fuck, idiot, deserve it and such. I am not asking them to understand. But I think it is common sense not to run out mouth wildly on the topic we don't actually understand. Critics for growth and opinions is okay but they need to stop with the cursing.....
Ye I'm not defending idiots, aka super haters, but I can understand why some people don't understand since its not convaed well/ they have never been threw mental health issues. I'm struggled with mental health and still am shit happens and life sucks. I think people r bagging on her bc maybe they are projecting too much?? We will never know.
Yeah. I know. Like basic instinc?
Most human always hate and reject things that different from what they know. While this "what they know" oftenly just regarding their own life. I guess that's why they tend to attack those that feel "strange".. or put up too much defense around. We will never know.
Tru Tru. And even if they do identify with it but reject it <ie they think they are a weakling pos bc they have feeling or cry ect> then they put that hate to others that they see themselves in. Ie projecting (づ￣ ³￣)づ
I laughed hard when I read the comments. Did yall just blame Tia?(￣∇￣")
I think I've already said and heard it almost everyhere. You know what the "rights" thing to do be because you read all the character perspectives, we read all the spoken and inner words.. But they, the characters, can't read each other. We know Ced love Tia because we read his mind. But Tia CAN'T. She's a strategy-general, not a shaman. Sure Ced already show all his love but Tia knew Ced always like that, both in the past and present.. Ced always take care and love his people, Tia falls for this traits. She took Ced's caress and loves as she is also one of his people.
And for Tia, who never loved by anyone even family, love is never easy. It is hard for her, who had limbs and tounge cut by a brother, to realize she is worth to love. Not mention she always think herself as a sinner.. After all those nightmares, she would never dare to think Ced loves her... It called trauma..
And for I am a trauma survivor too, I know what Tia feel and the reason she do this and that. If you can't understand this, congratulation, it means you have lived a decent and well life!
But... Just because you have a well done life, you shouldn't call other ways of life stupid, fuck, bitch, or else.. I lived my life, you lived yours, and Tia lived hers. Why judge?