i feel like people who care wayyyy too much about positions esp if its not a doujin or fanart have some weird underlying fetishizing/projecting issues :|. like if its a fan thing i understand, bc charas can have different characterization by fans between top and bottom, and fancanon is never the same. but for things like this, pls reflect on urself.
Weird underlying fetishes omg you mean like rape and sex curses? Give me a break. People like what they like that doesn’t say nothing about their character. Reflect on YOURself smh
im talking about the fetishization of mlm. the way you cant even think about how this sort of conversation negatively affects the perspective of gay mlm relationships and how they are portrayed.
Bae you seriously think yaoi mangas aren’t already mlm fetishizations? Of course they are, but most people know how to seperate their sexual desires from their actual opinions of other people. Dont try to act like you’re not also guilty of fetishizing gay men just cause you like switching.
agreed & if people are genuinely dropping the story because nuah might bottom it feels like they’re boiling down their relationship to just sex. they might as well stick to pwp if it matters that much to them
babe ur making the entire relationship about whos bottoming and whos topping. whos the one whos oversexualizing?
Lol sexual positions > rape apparently
who said rape?????? babe ur delusional
You got no room to talk about gay fetishization when you’re literally reading a rape manga. Dream on
I don't get it why people are so pressed about bottoming