People don’t understand that being in a stable and healthy relationship after one or multiple unhealthy and unstable ones is almost as bad as the unhealthy ones themselves. You get THAT much more scared and do stuff to sabotage it yourself cause you don’t know when they will cheat/hurt you/ leave you. It takes incredible strength from both of them. He doesn’t just need to trust eui-hyun, he needs to trust that he’s now in a safe space. He starts by asking questions and communicating but backs away cause he feels unsafe. That’s something eui-hyun needs to open with. ╮(￣▽￣)╭
True it’s really hard like I understand why he’s not confronting eui hyun because I do the same
Min hates confrontation because he thinks that it leads to arguments and eventually break ups(past relationships might be the reason) and he’s scared be assertive due to that reason.
I still don’t talk to my boyfriend about issues. Even things he does that sometimes hurts me (minor things), I just refuse to speak up about them cause I’ve been conditioned to believe I’m being argumentative for asking to be treated nicely. It’s really hard. Even if I get insecure, I can’t go to him no matter how inviting he is. He has to actively pull that information out of me.
Aw its okay bb, don't force yourself, i just hope you'll gain the courage to express yourself without any constraint soon;) step by step
Yeah I know, thank you so much! ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
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I myself have really bad trust issues, I understand min’s POV of the situation and it’s completely valid but when having second thoughts about someone’s feelings that isn’t right when he knows that eui hyun likes him a lot but then again eui hyun did speak with that red haired bastard so min’s viewpoint is valid it’s just that he needs to trust eui hyun and be more assertive