You’re right, I was checking out the raws and just like you said it’s mostly a relationship about sex from what it looks like to me and i think he probably won’t end up with neither of them
In reality he and up with both of them
Omg really…
bisexual people exist.
This is not the point of her analogy, she said that the mc enjoys having sex with guys because of his trauma and because his body got used to the idea of being raped.
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Saying "he was in love with a woman and never had any issues" is a weird way to try to support that point though. You can be comitted to someone of the opposite sex and still experience same sex attraction. I'm not even arguing against their point, I'm just saying they seem to be thinking very much in terms of just "gay vs straight".
She said that he could came out as gay or bi so I don't think
That she only thinking of him as gay or straight
Anyway I didn't mean to sound rude or anything and damn, my English is pretty bad xD
No you're fine lol I'm not even trying to argue or anything, I was just trying to point out that sexuality is more complicated than that if that makes sense. I didn't mean to sound rude either
I think maybe next time you should read everything I said before attacking me, I literally said that I think he’s straight and only wants to have sex with guys because of his trauma but in any case he got proper treatment with a therapist and still felt like he’s attracted the same sex, THEN I think it would be logical for him to come out as gay or even BISEXUAL
I wasn't attacking you, and I did read the whole thing. I was referring to the fact that you used him being with a woman as evidence for him being straight, because that doesn't actually mean anything in terms of his sexuality. I'm sorry if I came off as rude, I should've been more clear. But also, he doesn't need a therapist to determine his sexuality. Yes right now he's using sex with men as a coping mechanism (he even calls it exposure therapy), but that doesn't mean any feelings he might develop during this time wouldn't be valid. You don't have to be healthy to discover things like that about yourself. Again, not attacking you, I'm just sharing my point of view.
Can you pls give me the RAWS pls I been searching for it but could not have find please I really appreciate it if you did
So is that the same for me , being raped and end up liking girls but i feel like i want to hs w guy too because that past and yeah i getting used to it , but it also scared me my mental got worst but at same Times i want it so bad.
Hahaha
Look, I’m going to make it as simple as I can.
1) he needs a therapist not to determine his sexuality but to overcome the trauma that caused him to have an addiction to have sex with guys, an addiction he didn’t have before he was raped
2) I think he’s straight not because he was married to woman but because he never showed interest in the same sex, I just used that as a proof, nothing more nothing less
3) he could be gay or bi or whatever the fuck he wants, I just don’t think he’s in the right mind to decide that. AND YES MENTAL TRAUMA COULD CLOUD YOUR JUDGMENT AND MAKE YOU CONFUSED
4) All I know for sure that in this very moment he’s not screwing around with guys because he’s gay but because he is stuck in the time where he was raped by a guy on a daily basis. If anything having sex with a guy will only trigger all the bad memories he had
5)He doesn’t need sex or love to heal from his trauma, HE NEEDS THERAPY
6) His only escape from what happened to him is to have sex to get his mind off what he experienced, and sex is not the solution
If I still couldn’t get my point through, then let’s just agree on disagreeing. We can have different opinions and point of views and that’s okay, I mean this story is meant to be discussed and criticised. I hope I wasn’t rude or disrespectful
I hope you’re feeling better and have all the emotional support and love you need. I’m no expert or am I a therapist so I wouldn’t know if it’s the case for you, I only told my opinion on this story as a reader nothing more nothing less.
You don't decide your sexuality. And just because you discovered your sexuality during a bad time doesn't mean it's not valid or that you're just "confused". He came out as bi in the last chapter btw
I’m tired of this discussion, but yeah totally there’s nothing more realistic and logical than discovering your sexual identity after being raped. This is a fucked up manhwa and it was since the beginning nothing made sense about it and top of that he ends up in a poly relationship. Whoever made this manhwa is the one who needs therapy. Please let’s end this argument here, I’ve also decided to drop this because, the plot is stupid and it’s basically a lot of sex with a little bit of a side story. Goodbye
I’m probably going to be attacked for this, but I strongly feel like the MC isn’t gay. He was married to a woman and he was in love with her and he never had sexual problems with her, so where is this strong desire to be held by a man coming from? I think the only reason why he enjoys having sex with guys is because of his trauma and because his body got used to the idea of being raped, the desire for a guy to have sex with him is purely an the instinct of lust, his body is enjoying it while his mind and soul and mental health are being tortured, it’s like drugs for him, no matter how much you hate it or want to quit it, you’re simply addicted to it and to the feeling of orgasm and detachment from reality, it’s like a constant battle to get your mind from the very thing you’re struggling with, I don’t think sleeping around with guys is going to help him make peace with his trauma. I genuinely hope he gets proper treatment with a therapist, and if then he decided to have a relationship with guys and come out as gay or even bi, then I’d believe it’s rational and acceptable. Until then, this fucked up relation he has with sex is only going to ruin him and break him, he’s not in the right state of mind to be in relationship…sorry if I was ranting for too long, it’s just my perspective as a reader and I wanted to share it