No, your take on real relationships is the most realistic I’ve seen in a while :D it makes me happy to know that there are people out there who understand the complexity of human relationships. There’s no black and white. We never know how something is gonna turn out if you don’t try. And if you do, just give your best, even if it mind end up in a different direction than you had imagined. As long as someone can adapt, communicate and be honest, life would be much easier to handle. (▰˘◡˘▰)
Thanks for that. I didn't want to sound preachy. Ive definitely got the experience for that! Ha!
No offense to anyone before I say anything.. HAVE you ever dated someone and it didn't work out eventhough you liked the person? Then years later you run into them again and you can't get them off your mind?? Well that's the basis of the story.
People (in America) were pressured to get married like in the story in large in 80's and 90's after college. Dating is fun and you do it for a while. Then you get married and you go through a honeymoon phase of love and kiss, etc. Then you you go through adjustments of living together and maybe have kids. You have issues maybe finances, medical, etc. If you make it through those times then years have gone by and that cutesy love grows into a deeper relationship love. But also you are growing and changing as a person.. being a parent, getting a degree, or becoming a professional. The kids are out of out high school and you look around at your spouse and you say.. Who are you now? Are we the same people? Do we even like the same things? We've lived in this house all these years.. We started together younger but we changed as we grew.. So now I feel like I don't really know anything about you any more.
SO some couples work it out. Some divorce but find a way to reconnect because that fundamental feeling is still there. And unfortunately some do not.
SO our couple did wait years and years to divorce. They had no kids. But when they reconnect she doesn't want it to be just physical. If you just base your relationship on sex, when you're done there's nothing to talk about. It's just lust. There's no harm in taking in It slow and learning about each other first there sex sex life isn't the problem...
I'M DONE... SORRY FOR FOR RAMBLING... THAT THE END OF THE LESSON FOLKS!!