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I agree, that question is a complete turn off when asked like that. "I won't make fun of you (because I'm such a good guy)"?? Is it something to normally make fun off, then, is what you mean? Then right back at you: "How many of your relationships lasted more than a month? It's ok to tell, I won't make fun of ya"
Also notice how it will go both ways. If you're having too much sex you're a hoe (unless you're a good looking man) and if you dont have any experience boo hoo you're a virgin. People will find anything to scorn about.
I find it such a turn off when they do that. Focus on one partner's lack of sexual experience as some disease needed to be cured. Like the idea that I don't fuck everything that moves is something to belittle, and being fucked by some hedonist is something I should be thankful for. I just don't understand how that is seen as romantic. It just solidifies great you're a great lay but not an actual good romantic partner but somehow I'm suppose to ignore that because somehow I'm the magical virgin that will make you change your ways? It's honestly insulting.