She is her mom though. Why would she want to be simply best friends with her? And no I'm not shipping her with the @-hole ex when I say this. She can be her mom another way. Of course she would have to tell her daughter the truth but I don't think the FL would actually have a problem with that.
Oh, okay. So if your father married another woman but it turns out she was actually the reincarnation of your mother you still call her your mother?
Why not? She is still my mother so I don't know why I wouldn't? Even if she was around the same age as me.
Alright but I'm talking about my real life experience here. What I meant is even tho she is her mother she is still in a different body and a different person. In my experience when my father married another woman should I still treat her as my mother? Even now that she is my legal mother in law she is still my step mother by blood.
Your stepmother does not have your mother's mind. You essentially are saying that the only thing that matters about people is their blood not their mind. I apologize, but a person to me is far more than just how they are (blood) related to me.
You guys don't get my point here. Ofcourse she is her mother but in terms of "title" she was still her step mother or a new mother. The same with my situation. What I literally meant is she is "my step mother or new mother" but not my mother.
Em, sorry for butting in. In my opinion, a step mother won't ever be a mother for you. Either it blood-related or not. The impression might be similar, but they'd never be your mother (speaking of biologically & mentally image). Even if she was a reincarnation of your mother, the body wasn't.
Ah, I'm sorry if this sounds like I'm being nosy. I don't know how it really feels to have a step dad or mom (mine's still together although they sometimes had a ridiculously stupid big-fight [my dad started it]). What I do know that you may just not treat them as your real's (this topic is actually quite sad and troublesome in somd way), but still, respect (even the smallest) them as someone who cares for you even without being blood-related to you (anyway, if they did something bad, it's appropriate to correct them without lessening your small-respect towards them)
Pls don't become a stepmom. U two look good as a bestfriends