
Here's the thing, the reason people say "the seme should suffer more," is so there are consequences for his actions. The problem with forgiving that easily makes it seem like there is no accountability nor any understanding of the gravity of his choices. Obviously, no one is asking the seme to seriously die, but in order for him to understand the pain he caused to MANY people he did deserve to face hardships. Forgiving someone just because you love them is not healthy and will likely lead to them hurting you again in the future. I think the place we disagree is the severity of the semes actions, since I find the things he did to be near unforgivable. Do I think he deserved to suffer forever? Of course not, but I certainly don't think he was at a point where he proved he deserves a second chance with the uke.
tldr; we don't want the seme to suffer just because the uke suffered, we want him to suffer to understand the pain he caused and to have serious consequences for his disgusting behavior
Seeing so many comments about, "the seme should suffer more". The seme'll suffer more, then what? Still not enough? Lemme ask ya'll, what is the necessary punishment needed for someone's forgiveness? What if the uke wants death? Is that enough? I know for a fact each and every one of you forgave someone easily because of the same reason the uke have which is, "I love him/her/they/them" Love would fade if we still hold on to our grudges. And I'm fucking LONELY! (╯°Д °)╯╧╧