It's subtle misogyny. They think feminine = bad/weak or that feminine = they are actually women. People need to realise that feminine men are still men and it doesn't make it straight, plus women can be masculine too.
In the gay community there are gay guys who don't like "fem" gays because of internalised homophobia - they want to seem "normal" to straight people unlike "those types" of gay guys.
It’s sad to hear that even in the gay community there is a internalised homophobia when it’s within their circle, some of them know how it felt not to be accepted in the community so I feel like they shouldn’t do that to others too and just accept everyone that just want to be themselves. Anyway Thank you for enlightening mee (●'◡'●)ﾉ
Since I am curious about this uhmm topic, I would see some complains or rather a comment about a characters in a mlm story. About how the bottom would be “Too” feminine, like I don’t see any problems with that. In real life there are a lot of feminine gays or boys that I would see I also know some of them so im genuinely curious why people would react like a feminine bottom or top is a problem?? I mean sure we also want some representation that not all gay men are feminine but I seldom see any representations of some ladyboys or femboys or feminine gay.
Maybe it’s just me who’s thinking too much about it but i just really want to ask this and kindly recommend me some plot if ever too (づ￣ ³￣)づ
I don’t want any fight I’m just curious so don’t bully me pls tenchuuu ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~