
Um I meant it in the sense that she shouldn't be so hard on herself( ̄へ ̄ ) , it's a complicated situation tbh. Like idk, we'll see more in the future. But at the moment I don't think his method of being "comforting" was the best, obviously she has her faults and she also messed up which we will probably see more of in the future. But for right now we know his communication was no where lol, had she not come back she wouldn't have realized he even did anything to begin with because his way of comforting her was distancing himself and doing what he thought was "good for her" without actually talking to her ╥﹏╥

So is it fine if I say "If anything that type of person wasn't the person he needed, he needed someone who could communicate and try to find out who he was and not assume things that never occured." Because it is a 2 way street. He actually talked we saw it when he told her to be more assertive, but she assumed it was negative. You can say the situation is complicated and it is but her lack of interest in trying to make the situation better is the issue. She had to witness him die and come to the past to finally try to look and understand her surrounding.
This is tough because on one hand he was doing his best to make her feel comfortable. But on the other he wasn't good at it ╥﹏╥. Communication is what they really needed, but she shouldn't blame herself because honestly he wasn't any better. If anything that type of person wasn't the person she needed, she needed someone who could communicate and make her feel safe. He wasn't that person then so I hope he will be this time(/TДT)/ , she's had it tough ╥﹏╥