For me & this is what I feel, it's a no too. Alex is so insensitive in saying he wants...

preach!!

I have a question for u: if it’s fine for single ppl to donate, how would all the issues u listed with the sperm donation change once that single person enters a rs???

Also,,,, he and Cole can definitely have kids if they wanted, surrogacy and adoption exist

I'm sure you're asking @Yuki but I wanna reply too. This is a different situation because I assume the sperm has already been donated? if that's the case then I suppose the donor needs to be honest about it with his new partner, be it a man or a woman, and for them to discuss what happens next with regards to the kid and then decide to continue the relationship or not.
What I'm trying to get at is the fact that the couple need to have an honest conversation about it then decide and none of that happened in this manga. Alex is being insensitive about it and rushed to agree without talking to Cole about it. Cole is jealous and terrified that Alex would leave him if he refused straight away that's why he tried to urge Alex to think about it more instead of admitting he was against. and what does Alex do? he gets angry with Cole and hurts him.

Yeah I get the Cole is jealous and insecure but I think that’s like his issue? Instead of idk dodging his feelings and saying excuses for why he’s saying no and all. Also Id think u need to disclose abt ur sperm donation if u don’t plan on being a figure in their life (which is what I assume a sperm donor would do) and that’s why I don’t really get the issue. Now if the lesbian couple do plan on involving Alex, that’s something that *would* require discussion and stuff, but if it’s simply just a sperm donation and nothing else is what I don’t get

You know I think if the couple who wanted the sperm weren't his friends it would be better maybe? Cause he will definitely be involved in that child's life and it will feel off for Cole in the future. You know if they weren't his friends and just a random couple they wouldn't get involved with each other anymore and it wouldn't be sad for his partner

I mean I understand why they decided to go w a friend cuz they wanted to get someone’s whose appearance they’re familiar with? I think involving Alex is the child’s life is defo not a good idea w/out a proper convo but rn we don’t know if that’s what they want

Yeah. As someone who has never been in this situation I can't really judge what is the best way and what is the right choice but I think for these things people need a long conversation and should have a lot of thought on it

I agree. It's just too conflicted for both of the couples, they're going to get tied down by the baby forever even though it's just alex giving sperm they're still going to cross paths a lot of time since alex and the girl are friends. The lesbian couple is ready to have a baby but cole and alex is not (they're a student and a newly graduate people) It's not an easy road. Alex is taking it lightly. Talking about baby is too early they should first focus on enjoying each other, improving their toxic relationship & building their career/future.

Trueeeee 100%