Realistically speaking, I would say teenagers don't make the right the decisions most of the time. (We kinda dumb) and a pregnancy can't be blamed only to one party (it is the responsibilities of both parties, unless it is rape)
The seme was a teen and underaged, but the uke was a full grown adult, he took advantage of a minor
Nvm apparently he was 20 and 23, but I feel like the author aged him up, wasent he still in school? Still wrong tho seme is still not mature
So, at the age of 20, he didn't even know about knotting, ruts, and how he can easily get someone pregnant especially during his ruts?
And top of that, he admits that he actually has his medicine on his pocket but decided to accept the offer?
Maturity isn't about the age. Someone can be so childish even in their 30s, while some 19 y.o can hold a responsibility like 30 y.o
Once someone's above 18, they're adults. End of the story.
If after that someone decided to stay ignorant about his own body, his own condition, he has to take responsibility.
You totally misunderstood Eunhoo when he said Taeyoon didn't know about knotting. What he meant was Taeyoon wasn't aware he knotted him. That's why it didn't cross his mind that Tae-eun might be his child at first. He was 20, and he was a college student. He's legally an adult, but he was still a child. Plus, his parents babied him. What happened to them was consensual. The only mistake was Eunhoo ran away after getting his seed.
But didn't he intentionally use him to get a baby to fill his loneliness? Like that's not a situation u should bring about a person into this world, a baby will not fix your problems, also intentionally bringing a baby into a unstable tough situation.
I wasn't talking about what Eunhoo said about Taeyoon.
I was talking about Taeyoon himself, logically, at the age of 20, didn't even understand his body. That's his own responsibility.
He wasn't still a "child".
He has this pure, innocent aura, but that doesn't mean he's a child or incapable of understanding or getting information about his own body.
There' no way, I repeat, no way a 20 y.o who lives in a free world (not part of a cult, didn't get isolated) didn't know about sex and how it can get someone pregnant.
He have a medicine for his ruts, he knows what that medicine for and why he has to take it.
Yes, it's consensual.
Lmao, there are TONS of people who are having a baby for "their own benefits" especially when they need love.
Heck, some older parents even have baby "by accident" and didn't even realize they have the baby until 4 or 5 months pregnant.
No matter what the reason behind it, at the end of the day, it's how you raised the baby and how the baby grew in a care, love environment.
Which in this case, Tae Eun got.
Stop this narrative of blaming Eunhoo.
Just stop reading if you don't like it.
At no point did I say I dislike it, hence why I'm reading it, this is just my moral opinion. You may have a different opinion based on your life experience. But to me I will say what he did as bad because people need to be more responsible when having children, as it is not something to take lightly. Of course in the case of accidents and if the child grows up well then that's good on them. But if you are mentally unwell and not in a stable place or will be bad for them, in many cases people shellfishes being a baby thinking it will solve all their problems when in reality it doesn't.
Again this is just a manga and I am just stating my opinion, good day.
If you want to relate it to your argument, at least have it in the manga that you have a discussion in.
It's literally not the case in this manga.
Exactly, this is just a manga.
So don't strecth this into a long explanation about real life situation that isn't even shown in the manga.
I'm confused, like it's in the manga story, so that's why I was just thinking about it. Also your argument that this is just a manga so we cannot relate it to real life is dumb, it's media so it can be a reflection of it.
I feel that you think this is a heated conversation since tone is hard to get in text but criticising and having opinions on stuff is not bad, I seriously hate the argument, it's all fictional so why do you even care, like seriously what's the point of telling a story then if not to have discussions and conversations.
If you don't want to read my long explanations then don't, I am just a manga nerd that likes to talk about them in depth alright.
"I'm confused, like it's in the manga story, so that's why I was just thinking about it."
=>You said this: I will say what he did as bad because people need to be more responsible when having children, as it is not something to take lightly.
Is that even in the story? The fact that he's taking care of his kid and provide everything.
=>You also said this: But if you are mentally unwell and not in a stable place or will be bad for them, in many cases people shellfishes being a baby thinking it will solve all their problems when in reality it doesn't.
Is that even in the story? When his problem was his need o love and loneliness which IS SOLVED.
The only part that actually related to the story is him purposely have children. That's all.
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"Also your argument that this is just a manga so we cannot relate it to real life is dumb, it's media so it can be a reflection of it."
=> Lmao, can't you read? Like, actually read the whole sentences.
Here I'll copas this for you to read again, carefully
So don't strecth this into a long explanation about real life situation that isn't even shown in the manga.
"Don't relate to real life situation that ISN'T SHOWN in the manga."
You have this whole ass discussion about being responsible parents, when the manga you discuss ISN'T SHOWING irresponsible parents. At least the Uke. You don't talk about his dad, so there's no irresponsible parents in this case.
You add this whole mentally unstable parents isn't supposed to have kid when IT ISN'T SHOWN in the manga.
Uke was distress ONCE, and he's simply felt lonely after someone passed away, and you suddenly saying he's mentally unstable? Give me a break
I'll say it better then, my main point is the situation, yeah the uke and the baby turned out fine, and all the bad stuff I mentioned didn't happen in his case.
My while point was that is not always the case in real life and that in reality this situation would be irresponsible and such.
Thus I was relating the story.
I am a very sinical person and because u like quoting me "I like to discuss a lot about manga because Im obbessed" If u don't want to discuss this arbitrary situation, then don't? Like don't make urself pressed for no reason okay, if u don't like to read my long responses simple ignore.
Tldr, this whole time I'm discussing the what if scenerario, and that the manga could have turned into a dark place due to the circumstances it set at the start.
If u think what he did is fine because if the outcome, then fine agree to disagree, no need to keep telling me to stop discussing it
Also your last point, I said IF he was mentally unstable. Please read my point carefully.
y'all if anyone needs a summary of this manhwa, just read these replies LOL
"If u don't want to discuss this arbitrary situation, then don't? Like don't make urself pressed for no reason okay, if u don't like to read my long responses simple ignore."
=> Your "discussion", again, isn't related to the manga AT ALL.
I don't have a problem with people having a deep discussion.
But do it in the right place/forum that actually related to that discussion.
I'm "pressed" and can't just ignore because your WHAT IF situation is the opposite of this story. Thank God it's not on the official website of this manga. If yes, for those who read your comments, they might think this manga is about those things and they decided to not read the manga.
So, Mr/Miss I am a very sinical person
I'd suggest you to share your moral opinion in the right story/manga/place.
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Ah, here ya go:
Also your last point, I said IF he was mentally unstable. Please read my point carefully.
This is exactly why it's important to have discussion based on the actual story in that manga. People can mix things up.
Jeez #－.－)
This will be the last response since it getting pretty lengthy, let's just agree to disagree
U think it's not related to the story and shouldn't be commented on, I think it is.
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Well, so you practically impregnated yourself to not feel "lonely" and feel loved. but in the process, you don't tell tae that he is the dad, use his rut and his feelings which were obvious, and missed the opportunity to get a whole family including a handsome loving partner.
smells like stupidness to me