Like the whole storyline aside..... If my partner asked to become a sperm donor (and it's ...

Yes I totally agree if I’m gonna take this situation form this manga, like I was just talking more in general about sperm donation. But if I’m gonna contact it with those two crazy people, u are totally right. They need to talk, like really talk and try to understand each other. They would seriously be best to be apart and find someone who has the same value as them. Like Alex wants a family one day and he even said it staring to Cole. Like Cole will not be able to have a future with Alex. This manga story is so twisted (≧∀≦)

Yes that’s true what U are saying!! I agree on that, this was more just the topic sperm donor, like in general and not connected to this manga story to Alex and Cole just the theme donor. Since there are people out there who can’t have children and then to have other opportunities is amazing.

But when it comes to this manga and those two Cole and Alex, they have two completely different opinions and values, and they don’t talk to each other properly to try to figure out what to do, like they don’t talk together like a couple. They just do what the heck they want, like they really need to work it out so their relationship gets healthier. Also I understand why Cole don’t want to, but they don’t talk it out. And Alex just left … like this is just fiction in real life I hope both couples will make a decisions that are best for them, and figure out together what to do. But in this manga Cole and Alex wants different things and that’s okay. Alex already told Cole he wanted children, 3 kids and he wants that one day. So this relationship is already doomed. Since Cole, he doesn’t want children and he only want Alex to himself. But let’s see how this turns out. x)

i can see your point clearly now. We both agree about cloe isnt really in the right mind and that how he is immature however -it might be about my personality- i would expect more immaturity between two 20 year olds. They are totally grown ups to me. Yes they can argue and have fights in the relationship but i expect 20 year olds to talk about how they feel and get through by talking their problems. You mentioned about in a situation where you felt you werent worthy in your marriage you wouldn’t tell him directly. Its my personal behaviour and personality but im also in a relationship and im used to stating how i feel anytime. Even if it might effect our relationship in a bad way because thats who i am . the relationship involves me and him. We had times where he didn’t tell me about how he felt cuz he felt like it could effect our relationship but again, that just made it worse because when he acted strange, i couldn’t tell what was going on and we couldn’t solve the problem. personally i think its always best to tell what you are feeling. I would like to mention that im queer and he is demisexual. We had times where he was scared to loose me because of my sexual attraction to women, we talked about it, now he trusts me with his heart and that isnt a problem anymore! i can understand why cloe is insecure but thats not a excuse. what im trying to say is that every problem can be solved by talking. I would like to point out every relationship isnt meant to last forever. By talking and understanding each other more (involes negatives things too) you come to understanding that even if you love that person, you cannot be in a romantic relationship and thats okay! If i had a really different life style with my partner and even if i love them to death it might be best to just let go (im saying that maybe cloe and alex are meant to be). I hope i got my message across. also i dont think you understand how donating works that why you are so againts it.