Thinkpls

This is the kind of excuse that give loosers, when they don't have any more arguments.

What am I talking about ? I'm sure that if we read the same story and if you use a bit your brain, EVEN you can understand.

Well, of course the only completely safe sex is abstinence, but if you are going to be sexually active with the possibility of more than one partner, then what I described is about the most responsible way to go about it. I'm not saying that your way of thinking is wrong either. For many people, it is the only conceivable way of having a sex life. All I'm saying is that way doesn't work for everyone, and we shouldn't condemn it just because we wouldn't choose to live that way. Morals differ from person to person. They are a very personal thing and can vary greatly depending on environment and upbringing. We should not judge someone else's life based on our morals.

Maybe it was cause of my lack of interest while reading but i couldnt quite catch what you were getting at in what you last wrote.. sorry, thats why i asked what u were talking about... but enough of that honestly why are you so offended? Why are u making it personal hinting that i dont use my brain and calling me a loser? LOL we both crearly have different opinions and no matter what i say or you say wed still stand by what we believe... if deciding not to keep on writing paragraphs for u to read and look for what to disagree on is what losers do then i am one... its whatever.. i really really don't want to keep on arguing

"We should not judge someone else's life based on our morals."
It's not really judging someone else based on our morals. Life is morals. And judgment is part of life. In order to determine the good from the wrong, a person needs to judge a situation and make his/her decision following this. That person can also deny what is good or is seen as favorable by the society and choose another path.

He has the choice to do whatever he does, but he can't also complain that another person won't see him with good eyes or judge him the way he doesn't want. This is also called to be responsible of your actions and assume them. The same way, people with your opinion can't avoid this kind of judgment on these people.
And I'll say again : judging is not bullying nor stoning.
Living following a sain and safe life doesn't necessarly mean to follow the mass, it's also to be respectful towards yourself as person, firstly.
Not forgetting that many of this kind of loose life often lead to a destructive, auto-destructive or abusing path.
We know different lifestyles, I'll always choose to favor the good path over the wrong and will always speak for it for my part.

Im so with you on everything youve said

I reply twice because I didn't see that it went on the second page and thought that my connexion had a problem.

"Maybe it was cause of my lack of interest while reading..." Then, how about giving to it a seconf reading, and a full thought ?
(The same way, you surely read what I wrote without interest).
You can't just say "well, he can't get this, so he just does that..." without being a bit serious. Usually, I don't give so much of my time for a yaoi, but here I feel the necessity to voice this opinion.
In the end, it may be just BL and fictional world, though many people spend all their time on those sites, and whatever we can say, people often voice their principles through this, and those voices will always influence a bit the young generation.

I just hope that you talk with your mind and heart in this kind of discussion.

"Im so with you on everything youve said"

Sure that you're not the only one to form this other clan lol.

YaoiSanctuary you are HILARIOUS .. quoting me and everything ♡ the other reply you wrote once again seemed like a pointless bunch of words to me and trust me i tried understanding but failed once again... you have been great entertainment for the night but now im really done replying to you

It would have been more difficult, in your case, if I didn't quote you I'm sure ;)

BTW, it wasn't my main purpose to entertain anyone and I have better things to do than "entertain" you, but let's take that like this since we'll never share the same view on that kind of topic anyway.

"Life is Morals. Judgment is a part of life." While this statement may be true to some extent, it still equates to a difference in opinion in how to live your life. All your set of morals and beliefs give a person is the right to make decisions about your own life; it does not give you the right to make decisions on someone else's life. For example, someone doesn't believe homosexuality is the correct way to live, but all that really means is that they can make sure they themselves aren't homosexual. That doesn't give them the right to tell everyone else not to be homosexual. In this manner, the judgments made about others should really only be in reference to whether or not a person is willing to have that aspect being judged as a part of their own life, not condemn and insult the other person for choosing to do whatever it is in that person's life (please understand I am only referring to things that bring no harm to others).

I wonder how many doors are needed to be open untill some people will be satisfied with the idea of tolerance.
And this comes from a tolerant person that I think I am.
If homosexuality is okay nowadays for many countries and more and more become tolerant and open to this, the base remain the same : some morals are needed to be kept for the sake of humanity. Unless people would tell me that gay people/homosexuals have no morals or limitations. So homosexuality isn't really an issue here, and no more nowadays.
BTW, "making decisions for others" isn't possible. Even as parents, it's impossible to force your child to not doing things you disagree with. So as an outsider, it'll be impossible to force anyone. You can just give your opinion, tell that you're okay/not okay with this or this subject. You can just influence the people around you in the good sense, or in the bad way.
Condamn ? Insult ? Did I ever say that condaming or insulting persons like that is a good thing to do ? No, not me, and no one else here did tell this.
But for me to agree to this kind of behavior will be really hard.

You completely missed my point. The homosexuality thing was just used as an example for what I was trying to say. As far as the condemning and insulting thing, I was referring to the beginning of this entire discussion and the use of the term "slut". By no means have I attacked anyone specifically. I do completely agree with your comment about parents not even being able to force their children. It's fairly amusing, because I had almost this exact conversation with my son a couple years ago. I told him that I could not force how to think. All I could do was tell him my opinion and hope that he thought about it enough to come up with his own. I would rather him do that than just parrot what I or his friends tell him. There is one instance where an opinion can be forced onto others, though. That is when it becomes a law. Just because something is law doesn't make it right (i.e. just like how gay marriage was against the law until recently). This is a prime example of how morals and belief systems change over time, though.

Wtf are kids doing here in the first place? Yaoi is not for kids! Those warnings are not for show!