My opinion is that both sides are somewhat right and somewhat wrong since is a tricky situ...

My opinion is that both sides are somewhat right and somewhat wrong since is a tricky situation. Firstly, I read a comment that says Alex owns his body hence he has the right to decide what to do with it. Yes, but it's not so much about what he does with his body, as it's also about their relationship and how those decisions can affect them both as cole is his boyfriend. Cole has all the rights to not be ok with Alex rash decisions and not have his opinions disregarded like that. I mean, even if he didn't want him to be a donor he only told alex to think about it more seriously he didn't straight up told him to not do it and alex got mad mad. And, what honestly doesn't feel right to me is how Alex just goes with the flow without considering cole;s feeling like they're not valid when they are in a relationship and that makes them valid enough in my opinion. They should really talk about it especially if one of them is not ok with it. It seems like alex just wants cole to be fine with it and if not oh well bad for you when it shouldn't be like that. Also, how you don't expect your boyfriend to feel insecure when you're not only a sperm donor for some random people. Its for people that Alex knows AND he's expressing how he's willing to be present in the child's life, like huh? he pretty much said he would be a father's figure for them if the child wanted or smt. I would definitely feel some type of way with that declaration. If my partner wants to be a sperm donor, fine. But damn it you aint the father technically speaking cause you're a donor and the child will have the two parent with them so let it be and let them be, that's the whole point bruh T.T Anyways I don't know why I'm expecting anything from them I guess it's been so long that I forgot how toxic and unconventional they are. If they're not going to therapy, specially cole I think they should take a break or smt to really think about they're relationship and where everyone stands in it. This is just what I think tho so I know I might be wrong