One time i even told a girl that my bf likes her lol I really like his dumbfounded reaction though.
After being cheated on I became like that too, honestly I just don't care anymore and it's actually annoying, I used to be the kind of person who put all their soul in a relationship, now I just don't care because I feel like they can betray me anytime ╥﹏╥
Yes but in my case it might be because I’ve seen enough how my mom will do anything to keep my dad even after we caught him cheating multiple times. It’s tiring and affecting our mental health that’s why I don’t want to be like her.
You should learn about stoicism. You seem to already have a basis of being a great warrior of the mind
Sounds fun i will try look into it thank you
an easy but consicive intro into this huge field is "the little book of stoicism" that I can recommend. Am reading it myself right now. He repeats a few things in there, but dunno if you go through it still in spare time, you will kinda be grateful he hammers the important key factors of stoicism into you passively hehe
Tbh i kinda feel jealous of people like natori. I really want to know how does it feels to feeling insecure of your partner might be cheating on you because when I’m in a relationship if my partner trying to flirt with other people I’d be like Oh you like them? Go then. Or if they said they like someone else I’d always says you can cheat on me or whatever idc i can always leave you. Like I don’t really have the energy for being possessive or sad or betrayed. I always said to myself if they’re not meant to be mine they will leave. That’s why sometimes seeing how people will go to that extend just to make sure their partner didn’t cheat is refreshing to me lol