"FL should get a divorce ML needs professional help" I mean ML needs a support system and ...

56leon July 1, 2021 8:55 pm

"FL should get a divorce ML needs professional help" I mean ML needs a support system and FL and Blanche are his family who are in a prime position to be that support, but go off, I guess?

I'm going to guess half the comments section is either neurotypical as fuck or edgy and doesn't like admitting that struggling alone fucking sucks. Love doesn't cure everything, but people can help.

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    Naughty list July 1, 2021 9:01 pm

    I mean I don’t see them as support because he doesn’t really care about them. Which we know why but they don’t. You can’t help someone if they don’t want help, all you will do is keep on bothering them until they get tired of you. The ML does need professional help and it would be great if he got it but the FL and his daughter can’t force him too since he doesn’t have a close and loving relationship with them. Or that’s how I see it, i dont know about you. The FL may tell him to get it or help him in so way but the past her had a nasty personality so the ML doesn’t trust her at all, so to me she isn’t an option. His daughter is the same, he isn’t really close to her and we don’t know if he loves her or not(I feel like he has no feelings for her, it’s like she’s just there yk) he might care about her but I feel like it’s not enough to consider getting help because of her yk

    Naughty list July 1, 2021 9:01 pm
    I mean I don’t see them as support because he doesn’t really care about them. Which we know why but they don’t. You can’t help someone if they don’t want help, all you will do is keep on bothering the... Naughty list

    Sorry that was really long, I like talking about the characters and the story

    TwistedCupid July 1, 2021 9:09 pm
    Sorry that was really long, I like talking about the characters and the story Naughty list

    I like how them to at least be friends for the kid's sake. Even if it isn't romantic, they could still talk and be supportive friends.

    Naughty list July 1, 2021 9:13 pm
    I like how them to at least be friends for the kid's sake. Even if it isn't romantic, they could still talk and be supportive friends. TwistedCupid

    Yess, they can still have some type of relationship. It doesn’t have to be romantic

    ChuYang July 1, 2021 9:21 pm
    I mean I don’t see them as support because he doesn’t really care about them. Which we know why but they don’t. You can’t help someone if they don’t want help, all you will do is keep on bothering the... Naughty list

    Except... he is trying to change so I don't know how this can be viewed as him not wanting help. Plus he clearly stated in the most recent chapter that the reason he avoided Blanche was not because he didn't care for her. He also ripped up the doll because he was concerned about his daughter.

    56leon July 1, 2021 9:35 pm
    I mean I don’t see them as support because he doesn’t really care about them. Which we know why but they don’t. You can’t help someone if they don’t want help, all you will do is keep on bothering the... Naughty list

    ....what? He OBVIOUSLY cares for them, otherwise he wouldn't be so hung up over hurting the FL and treating Blanche well in the latest chapter. Are we even reading the same manhwa?

    Naughty list July 1, 2021 9:40 pm
    ....what? He OBVIOUSLY cares for them, otherwise he wouldn't be so hung up over hurting the FL and treating Blanche well in the latest chapter. Are we even reading the same manhwa? 56leon

    I mean you could feel bad about hurting someone without having to care about them. That’s how I am. You can see he’s trying to change but their relationship hasn’t changed at all

    Naughty list July 1, 2021 9:45 pm
    Except... he is trying to change so I don't know how this can be viewed as him not wanting help. Plus he clearly stated in the most recent chapter that the reason he avoided Blanche was not because he didn't ca... ChuYang

    We know why he ripped it, obviously we all would. He is changing but their relationship hasn’t changed so much, you can see some changed here and there but the FL isn’t picking up those small changes that we are. I don’t blame him for ignoring his daughter, I mean what happened to him isn’t something to take lightly. I dont know how you view a person changing over time as wanting help? I don’t think that’s a call for help if it’s moving in a positive way. It would be a call for help if it was in a negative way. But I see that he’s changing in a positive way

    Naughty list July 1, 2021 9:49 pm
    ....what? He OBVIOUSLY cares for them, otherwise he wouldn't be so hung up over hurting the FL and treating Blanche well in the latest chapter. Are we even reading the same manhwa? 56leon

    It’s normal to be upset over hurting someone even if you don’t care, tho we can see how the FL has changed and he has too. We see that he’s still wary around her but it’s not as bad as it used to be. He was even surprised when she cried over the doll. He’s noticing her changes and feels bad because he knows that she only wanted to help but his trauma is bad enough to be wary around women.

    ChuYang July 1, 2021 11:20 pm
    We know why he ripped it, obviously we all would. He is changing but their relationship hasn’t changed so much, you can see some changed here and there but the FL isn’t picking up those small changes that w... Naughty list

    You're essentially arguing that he's not making positive changes though. You're saying that the FL won't notice what he's doing. So from the FL's perspective how could it be considered a positive change? So, in turn, from her point of view he would (still*) be asking for help. (*This isn't about the FL helping him with his trauma, after all. This is about what she's already been trying to do to reestablish a connection between father and daughter, despite *not* knowing about what happened to him.)

    But regardless of whether or not he's making a positive change, just because a relationship doesn't change immediately after some (tiny, baby) steps have been taken (no matter which side is taking them nor what reason they're taking them), it doesn't mean it's not working. In fact it's far more likely things aren't working if things *did* take a drastic turn basically overnight......