This is EXACTLY how I feel about age gaps
Then what if it's the younger one hitting on the older one? Is it still weird?
I guess it would be weird for the older one to accept it?? Knowing their age..? I guess it would be kinda acceptable if it were to be a hookup but if it were to be dating and all... it would be kinda weird??
Well even if it were the younger one hitting on the older, it's the older one's responsibility to understand the imbalance between them both and to say no. There's more leeway in your late twenties, but late teens/very early twenties is a no go imo. I'm 19 myself and anyone even two years younger looks like a child to me (that's because they are). Peeps our age still don't have the experience to make wise decisions. Not quite informed enough about the world but old enough to be making those types of decisions for ourselves. It's a tumultuous age, still settling into the skin of the person we'll be. Ugh, I hate it. T^T
I agree!
Well said!! You put it into words very well!!
I agree with a lot u said, except the tutor part. Maybe it's the translations and we all have different interpretations, but I think the black haired guy confessed to his tutor and was rejected. Because when his friends talked about her, they didn't call her his girlfriend or even ex-girlfriend, but his crush. So that must have meant they weren't dating and was just maintaing a tutor relationship.
It's the word "dumped" that's making me confused tbh since 'rejected' would have been better, but I still think the tutor didn't go out with him and had actually minded the age gap, which is why she rejected the black haired guy saying he's too young.
And the way they were dragging that sunbae who was 7 years older (that guy is definitely a predator and a creep if he's asking everyone out relentlessly) makes me think they would have dragged that tutor too if she had actually dated the black haired guy.
The only person who doesn't mind the age gap is black haired guy since he kept saying that 5 years wasn't that big of a difference and that being 7 years older than a college student doesn't automatically make you a fossil lol
Ohhhhh lmao yeah that makes sense, you’re right the tutor probably just refused and it was a translation problem
No but fr, that tutor is a fuckin predator, also that sunbae who is 7 years older hitting on freshmen, I actually agree with their stance on age gaps, but to a certain extent, it’s more to do with people’s stages in life, for ex, dating someone with a two year age difference while you’re a teenager is fuckin weird since each teenage age is vastly different from the next and they are both in such different places, dating a 22 y/o as a 20 y/o is fine because the are in similar life stages, above the age of 30, dating people who are 10yrs older is more acceptable, still kinda sus but acceptable, a 20 and 25 y/o is sus, once again, different stages in life, and for a 30 y/o, dating someone who is younger than five years younger than you is also fuckin weird