I'm not trying to defend anyone but
Obviously some people don't understand trauma. why?
Because they weren't traumatized before
How would they know?
So they might say some stupid shit because they don't know.
I don't want anyone to be traumatized either..
You don’t have to be traumatized to be able to understand the effects of trauma on a person and to emphatize with the victim(s). Not knowing shit does not ever excuse judging the victims. We have a lot of platforms that we can use to know anything and everything. Even if we know nothing, we can still always have the sensitivity to keep quiet until we are able listen to both sides.
Yea I agree with you
But I'm just saying
Understanding and empathizing is different
People who never had trauma would never understand the feeling but they can feel empathy.
But the people who are being dumb neither understand nor tries to empathize
And that's where it's wrong
Those people should just keep their mouth shut
Some of you don't understand trauma and it shows.