I can't even be mad at Jiho

LotusJuice July 13, 2021 12:58 am

Jiho as dumb as he is isn't completely wrong because Gunwoo does need to be more expressive and actually talk to Jiho. The miscommunication in this. AND GUNWOO STOP GIVING THAT UGLY ASS MONEY

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    Forgot July 13, 2021 3:41 am

    True but he was just opening up and expressing why he was so afraid to be left. And then Jiho AFFIRMS THAT FEAR BY LEAVING HIM.

    Like he's not gonna open up easily again after that, he just made it worse

    LotusJuice July 13, 2021 4:38 am
    True but he was just opening up and expressing why he was so afraid to be left. And then Jiho AFFIRMS THAT FEAR BY LEAVING HIM.Like he's not gonna open up easily again after that, he just made it worse Forgot

    I agree but these things need to be talked about beforehand you can't sit here and talk about how in love you are with someone every ten seconds only to reveal you're side feelings right when you're about to take the next step. No matter what this was gonna happen because Gunwoo doesn't talk about things until the last second.

    Forgot July 13, 2021 7:37 am
    I agree but these things need to be talked about beforehand you can't sit here and talk about how in love you are with someone every ten seconds only to reveal you're side feelings right when you're about to ta... LotusJuice

    Gunwoo doesn't owe him sex just because they planned it. Consent can be taken away at any moment and that should be respected.
    You can plan it thinking you're ready for it, and then realize in the moment that you can't go through with it /you're too scared/ get a trauma response. Whatever the reason, you shouldn't be guilted for it.

    LotusJuice July 13, 2021 10:23 pm
    Gunwoo doesn't owe him sex just because they planned it. Consent can be taken away at any moment and that should be respected. You can plan it thinking you're ready for it, and then realize in the moment that y... Forgot

    I'm not talking about him backing out of having sex. I'm saying even before they planned to do it some more ground should've been fully talked about and fully getting to know each other a little bit more. Actually showing communication and not just walking around saying I love you. The only time Gunwoo opened up he was drunk which was already a sign he has somethings that need to be addressed