About her looking like the real sister...

NafylaMetal July 13, 2021 11:24 pm

Is that really such a big deal? I had a neighbor (maybe 20ish?) when I was really young (maybe 7?) who looked exactly like me in her childhood photos. So much so that my mom and her joked that we could've been twins. But here I am, now 30, and don't look a thing like she did in her 20s or how she looks now. At most the fl and the "real" sister looked alike as children, but we have no way of knowing what the real sis would've looked like at the same age fl is now. Even identical twins can grow up looking completely different depending on their individual habits and such. And even if the fl and sister would've looked exactly alike, it's not as if the brothers or anyone could know since she unfortunately died. Can we please stop making drama over a non issue?

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    Nickles13 July 14, 2021 12:05 am

    While that is true I feel like it's not the resemblance that bothered me but the fact that they were raised as siblings. Like it's just plain weird to like your sibling, blood related or not especially if you guys were raised together even briefly.

    JIAN July 14, 2021 12:33 am
    While that is true I feel like it's not the resemblance that bothered me but the fact that they were raised as siblings. Like it's just plain weird to like your sibling, blood related or not especially if you g... Nickles13

    So y'all calling other people who married their CHILHOOD FRIEND disgusting too? Just think abt the logic they grew up together and as a siblings why aren't childhood friends too?

    g e L e e K July 14, 2021 12:42 am
    So y'all calling other people who married their CHILHOOD FRIEND disgusting too? Just think abt the logic they grew up together and as a siblings why aren't childhood friends too? JIAN

    YEAHHHHHH!!! ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍

    NafylaMetal July 14, 2021 12:55 am
    While that is true I feel like it's not the resemblance that bothered me but the fact that they were raised as siblings. Like it's just plain weird to like your sibling, blood related or not especially if you g... Nickles13

    I have to agree with Jian a bit here. I have friends who I grew up together with, were with every single day, who I considered siblings and who considered each other as siblings...and they are happily married now and have been for years now. There were summers where we stay at each other's houses the entire time as kids, their parents became my second and 3rd parents and my mom was theirs. We were all raised together as close as some siblings wish they could be. But their feelings changed as they changed...I don't they they are weird to have fallen in love and be together. It might have been different if we grew up thinking we actually were siblings, but we knew that we weren't. Just like the fl and ml know and have known that they are not. Not once since they have know each other did they not know that they weren't actually siblings...and in they story their feelings haven't been those that siblings have since the beginning (even before the time rewind)...and even with that, they tried to hide those feelings and be the siblings that they were "supposed" to be...but you can't expect them to push their actual feelings aside and be unhappy forever just to placate what people around them (and in this case some commentors) want/expect them to be.