
I know, i address the fric charas as seme/uke cus it not real its friction sometime i got problem remembering the name especially korean and chinese name characters, even tho im asian and life at that country.
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but when it comes to RL i addres them as "he/she" or "you" or "they" or their "name" what they want called by other and if iknow their name tho,
If yt couple i never say seme/uke in the comment/reply section or in their social media (ig/tw), i just call their name.
if my friend got a bf ill address my frieds's bf as "your partner" or "your bf" or "his name" not same as i address them as FRICTIONAL chara.
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As long as you can divided friction and real life things, its not abt addressing but all abt manners bestie, chill
I got manners maybe the other too, pls dont generalize that

idk if anyone actually cares. i'm a gay person but i also forget names of characters so if they're from a smut i call them the batter or pitcher. can't remember japanese or korean names (or names in general) very well so it's either those terms or i mention their attribute like glasses or color hair idk.
definitely rude to call real people not by their names. but like we're all reading an nsfw smut series right. we're all here to just have a good read and jack off one right.

Lmfao I know right- it ain't like they gonna fucking tell us to stop calling them uke. I ain't gonna go back to a chapter to figure out one of the blonde haired characters names cuz someone is gonna get upset for calling them a uke. Fr bro, if they human fe, but fictional shit. Ppl are fucking off their heads lmfao
not related…but it’s human decency to talk about a character by their name…stop saying seme or uke they have names. and if you don’t know it’s not that hard to find out ..stop shriveling their worth down to top and bottom. (update) a lot of y’all are just fetishizers anyway lol stop acting like it’s killing you to stop using these terms and use an attribute from the character or mhm idk maybe their name