I kinda get what you mean. There are people who are very slow and easily overwhelmed with socialising. And he obviously is someone like that, who is most yin his own world, so to him when people like the seme are in their element it must burn all their nerves to crisp from being unable to keep up with them so they kinda become "nonresistant" and just go with the flow peacefully and usually afterwards, when they have some time to finally breathe and let their mind roam freely without interruptions, then they will be able to process what happened and put it into context....i am not as much a dreamer as the uke, but this happened to me too...where i was swept up by the demands and shit of a date and suddenly i found myself having my hand around his erection and kissing him, even though all i planned and thought we would do and WANTED to do was to just talk, drink something and then part ways....it was so horrible how i felt afterwards, when i was finally kinda managed to save myself and get home....i wasn't violated, but it felt like it....i was swept up in the pace of another persons strong will and didn't pull myself together like an idiot...now i am scared to date people because i wonder if i just cannot properly be myself with dates and get swept up in their shit again....hope it makes sense....i don't really only blame the guy....even though he was blabbering about being a sincere person ( i felt suspicious the whole time anyway) and then suddenly pulled me in and i just kinda blanked out from the sudden onslaught of sensations i was not expecting...people like uke need a bit more sensitive and patient people...sure not someone who treats them like a porcelain doll...but gives them the time to catch up and stuff (mentally)
…That was very nonconsensual
I know the author is writing it in a way to show that he likes it and that he’s too shy or whatever to confirm it and hint that he does consent in like moaning?? Which I’m not unfamiliar with, it happens in way too many manhwas. I just can’t enjoy it as much and now I view the seme in a different light :/