its not cheating because theyre not in a relationship?? there's no such thing as an implied relationship especially after sex one time. it's obviously not the best thing to do but this boy has literal trauma and sex is his coping mechanism. stop.
So because someone has trauma that gives them the okay to do shitty shit to people ?
he's not doing anything TO the other guy?? theyre not in a relationship. he can do what he wants with his body. is it really good for anyone? no, but we have to understand where its coming from. omg
and if the childhood friend seme is a good person, he'll know he didn't sleep with the other guy to spite him. he did it because therapy isn't seen as an option for people in Korea and he didn't know what else to do with himself. being gay especially in conservative countries can be TRAUMATIZING
Don't waste your time, kittykat has replied all over with the same shit, apparently trauma is a get out free card and i don't have time to argue that. That's why i haven't replied to them...
Do you know how stupid and scummy you'd sound if someone confessed to you, you had sex with them, you went and fucked someone else and they found out and you responded with that you "didn't say yes"...?
That's called leading someone on, it's called that because there is an implied relationship. Regardless of your own selfish, shitty thoughts on the matter. It doesn't matter if you weren't looking for a serious relationship if you have sex with someone after they confess to you...
This is basic af, can't believe people are still saying "it isn't cheating because he didn't say yes". Fine, then it's cheating because he led him on. Either way.