what??

Why are you calling uke weak for being sexually harassed tf

Of course it's not uke's fault, it's rapist to blame here, that's obvious! But my question is, after that first time, why uke still contacted him and talk with him like nothing happened? Was it okay for him? Because it is strange behaviour for someone who was abused, I'm not saying he should be strongly depressed, but here we have nothing ┑(￣Д ￣)┍

The fact that he still get hard next to that rapiest probably piss me off even more!

You know that certain people can't really control it right? Stfu

First Because he is a man and no Im not saying men can't be sexually assaulted, but he is not a fragile lady, at least he can try to fight, and second, how the hell can he act as if nothing has happened to someone who has already tried to abuse him

I think that's just how male relationships work. The relationship that is meant here is not only about love but also friendship. different from women, if friendship between women is broken they will choose not to relate to each other anymore because basically women think more about following their heart. but the concept of friendship between men is very different because they think logically.


I'm sorry I can't explain in detail because my English is very bad lmaoo but that problem has something to do with the psychology of the gender or something like that

So are you saying that is normal for a man to act like nothing happened with another man even if he tried to abuse him just because they are men? ... Even if they are friends or just coworkes or they "act more logically" is hard for me to understand that they can act like nothing happened just because they are men ...

He did tried to fight back but that shitty rapist is physically stronger than him so how tf is he supposed to over power him. You do know victims of sexual asault blames themselves for getting sexually harassed right?? It's clear mimori wants to forget about what his abuser had done to then and leave it the past.

it's not something that he can't control wtf

Can*

Huh what are you trying to say???

ok maybe you are right, but I think that one thing is to try to forget about it acting like nothing happened because they are coworkers and they still have to see each other.. but another thing is to act like he is your friend and even tell him about your relationship problems.. I think thats absurd .. but thats my opinion and I respect yours

These kinds of situations actually occurs a lot in real life. Most people who are victims of sexual assault mostly blame themselves instead of their abuser its scary how it's so normalized irl. The abusers would always gaslight the victims making them think it's their fault for seducing them and that's the case for the uke and he want to leave that case in the past so he acted like nothing had happend between him and the rapist. It frustrates me how rapists are still roaming this earth and not getting jailed is just proves that the justice systems have really failed us.

Wait, you want to say that men can just like that forget about rape/abuse and still be friends with the attacker? Well, I think I disagree, maybe men aren't so emotional like women, but thinking that abuse is just like that, nothing for them, I don't think so

Well, similar situation occurred here, when that rapist trash after his first abuse said that Mimori is on blame and he cheated Yuma! Gosh, I just hate that guy!!! Damn!! The fact that this asshole didn't get punished and even has a spin-off, I have no words!

I'm trying to answer their question why the uke still contacted the blond jerk and talk with him like nothing happened? Was it okay for him?

So in short I said that men are less emotional and thus understand less, women are more emotional. So men are more forgiving of other people's mistakes. Maybe that's why the uke still contacted the blond and talk with him, the uke has forgiven the blond because of their long friendship too

Yes, I understand about what you are saying about the abusers and the victims.. It's just that how a told you before, I can't understand the behaviour of the uke in this manga being all friendly with his abuser and talking even about her relationship with him and letting his guard down.. but well, lets see what happen in the next chapters

The thing I cannot understand is their behaviour after the first abuse, when Mimori collapsed and Tsuji took him home, and when whole that confrontation with Yuma occurred. It looked like Tsuji was the one handing him over do Yuma, he even asked Mimori if he's okay with Yuma, and Mimori said yes I want to be with Yuma....I mean...wtf?! He was supposed to choose between whom? Yuma and that rapist?! I just don't like how they brush off this whole abuse situation and put that sth like love triange here out of nowhere ┗( T﹏T )┛

Sorry but I don't agree with you, yes men are less emotional, and even they are more prouder, that's why most men who are victims of sexual abuse don't want to talk about it or report it for shame, denial, even pride or fear to being exposed...and that doesn't mean they are more forgiving, they can be living a hell inside and not talking about it.. but not because they are less emotional because they are men but for many other causes like I already said ...

Exactly, this is what I don't understand, this whole relationship between Mimori and Tsuji, I mean, come on?! It looks like the author forgot about that abuse, and right in the next chapter began to treat Tsuji and another candidate to win Mimori's heart, they wanted to add love triangle or sth? Totally out of nowhere! And as I mentioned in my comment above, that whole conformation with Yuma was just incomprehensible for me, like they forgot that Tsuji used Mimori, and he was the one who has any rights to Mimori!!!