Yeah, but we gotta remember that it's always different for other people. Like with Dojin, tho he got mad that Yuwon won't date him, he still kept his promise and made it so that their relationship is completely sexual, and even I think his anger is normal and understandable especially if you're in his position. I also understand Yuwon's side, but at the back of my mind, he's lowkey but highkey selfish, considering he doesn't wanna date Dojin but is ok with sexual interaction, like he's using Dojin to satisfy his sexual urge while also keeping Dojin to himself so that he would only be attracted to him(tho i'm not saying that's his intention). I aslo hate the fact that they "can't" date but have sex like almost all the time which is a much risker option, like wtf Yuwon???
Anyway, thank you for coming to my ted talk
Nah bro, I understand that it’s different for all people. Yeah Yuwon also needs to understand, better way of putting this they just need to talk it out. I just really hate misunderstandings in bl.
What? I explained all that stuff to you and your answer is "nah bro". Can I atleast get a short explanation on what your point is? And yes, I hate misunderstandings in bl, but this is different, they already talked it out, it was decided that they'll only have a sexual relationship nothing more, their problem is with deciding. They can't seem to decide on what to do about how they feel, that's why they feel anxious. For example in Yunwoo's pov, he feels anxious cause Dojin might fall out of love with him if he continues to refuse to date him(which he really should decide, cause he's making it harder for the both of them) while Dojin is anxious, either because he thinks he can't ever date Yuwon at this point or because he's afraid of the same thing as Yuwon(which is not really revealed yet, these are just my assumptions) so yeah, no misunderstandings there, just lack of communication.
I know it's long, sorry
Not for me. I need us to be on the same page. What if I’m committed and the other person be sleeping around with everybody because we’re not even dating. “I like you” don’t mean shit. We ain’t in 6th grade.
But if someone pulls that on you, chances are they’re dating someone else and you’re a side piece, or they just don’t think you’re good enough to be dating material.
What’s wrong with nah bro? I don’t want this to turn into an argument because of what I would do. Do I really have to explain why I said that? Yeah, lack of communication, but also a misunderstanding. Please understand I said nah bro because I wanted us to be cool with us just sharing our opinions. Can you not be so sensitive over the things I say? Respectfully of course, thank you for clearing things up.
Maybe in your view. But all of my friends are not dating anyone, and even if they thought of me as a side piece. I don’t need to date someone who doesn’t want to date me, course I’d be confused and a little sad. But you get what I’m saying right? Other chances are, they can’t date you because they have a lot of things going on in their life. I would wait for a long time until they are comfortable. I don’t get why I’m getting so much backslashes from sharing something I would do. Thank you for the constructive criticism.
And they might not want to share those things. Even if I was their closest person to them and they didn’t feel like sharing, shouldn’t you be understanding? Of course if we are talking about in the manhwa, yeah it’s none of what I was talking about, if we are looking at the semes character, all he does is sex sex sex, maybe from that piece you can tell why There’s a big misunderstanding? If they talked it out they wouldn’t understand eachother feelings truly. Thank you I really do appreciate your kindness, you are a good person :)
When I said wouldn’t I meant would, apologies.
It just felt off when you said that without even explaining your part. And yes, I too don't want this to be an argument, I just wanted to know your thoughts on what I said, and explanation in why you still think the way you do after I said all that. And again, why do you thinn it's a misunderstanding? What did they misunderstand?
Idk if you're talking to me, but i'mma say this, I kind of get why you would think it's a misunderstanding, it's kind of the same as lacking in communication. Also, with the seme, let's not forget it was the UKE who told the seme to keep their relationship sexual, otherwise the seme wouldn't have pursued the uke with sex, cause the seme wanted their relationship to be more than sexual wich is what the uke didn't want, so if you think the seme is using sex to show his anger towards the uke, that wouldn't be the case, because that's what they agreed on, and the seme just followed but is frustrated because yes, he like having sex with the uke, but he can't be anymore than that to him. They're partly both at fault here, seme making the uke have sex all the time and the uke making the seme saty with him by using sex as an excuse cause he can't date him(which I think is really selfish). Anyway, I know you don't want to argue or anything, I just wanted to put my thoughts out there, and if you don't agree, of course it's fine.
No I agree with you! I feel like they should date rather than keep up this wall between them. I thought it was a misunderstanding because with the whole “I want to have sex with you so that you can stay with me” now that you’ve said it’s lack of communication I don’t think it’s necessarily just a misunderstanding. It’s kind of confusing but I understand :)
Ohhhh so that's why you thought that way, and yeah, sorry if it was confusing, I talk a lot and I don't get to the point immediately, but thank you for understanding, and i'm really glad this didn't turn into some kind of argument, it was fun chatting with you and knowing your ooinions.ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
Nice talking to you too!
If I liked someone and they said they liked me back and didn’t want to date me I’d let them. As long as I know they like me back I can be reassured. I mean they must have a reason for not wanting to date me and I completely understand and respect them for that.