No that’s literally the definition of a sadist which falls under BDSM and S/M relationships which he mentioned. A sadist is a a person who derives pleasure, especially sexual gratification, from inflicting pain, humiliation, etc on others. A “psychopath” (which by the way is an outdated term) is a mental (antisocial) disorder in which an individual manifests amoral and antisocial behavior, shows a lack of ability to love or establish meaningful personal relationships, expresses extreme egocentricity, and demonstrates a failure to learn from experience. Please understand words and what your talking about before using them. Coming from a sadist labeling us as psychopaths is harmful to us and makes us feel worse about our kink then we already do. We understand our desires are bad and trust me we feel guilty about it.
I’m sorry if I offended you in anyway. What I meant was that some subs enjoy pain as it’s pleasurable (which is what the Dom wants to give). I didn’t assume he was a sadist bc all his relationships seemed to be D/S
A Dom gets off by giving pleasure to their sub. They revolve around the sub’s wants and needs. And this guy has just transcended into psychopathy bc he gets off by inflicting pain