
i agree in the fact that ian is mentally like 40, but nonetheless, he's in the body of a child which people shouldn't ship him with a grown man. because that would imply that the grown man is attracted to a 12 yr looking boy. personally, my stance is that ian shouldn't be shipped with others regardless of their age. once ians body matures to an adult i think its be more reasonable for him to have a partner. but in honesty, i would prefer him to be romanceless.

I prefer him romanceless too! i feel like it needs the right angle to put it up in the story, feels complicated too. I like how you said fiction affects reality that's something new, not when one is matured tho. Lol that definitely wouldn't happen cause it won't fit in the story, not that i mind also i feel like this just one of the cannon something like that

Lol, ok
Imagine this setting, you're a parent and you have a 12year old daughter who says that she remembers her previous life and she was with a man like no other and really wants to see him again (lets say you believe her and somehow they end up meeting and hold hands and start blushing..)
Would you be like : wow thats soo cute, true love does prevail and all that bs??
Or....you have a nephew(13) who is more mature than your bf/gf and he happens to really like this 30year old man
Will you say...well he is mature for his age and I dont really mind them just going out and stuff
If the person doesnt have the physical age of lets say 18 (for most countries) those ships are mostly taboo
Arranged marriages for kids is different and I guess the guy who started it meant well in a serious/jokingly way but just didnt know how to explain it well
Anyway I'll just see them as characters and nothing more

I'm not a homophobic lmao, i even read so much Yaoi and Shounen ai in this site. And yes for some ppl homosexuality is inappropriate but i didn't say i am. You're just making assumptions on ur own lmao. And what, you want me cursing like U, using bad word for person i don't even know just because we're practically anonymous. And U know what English isn't my 1st language, i try to be polite as much as i can so ppl can understand what I'm tryin to say. At least I'm not like u who mocking ppl just bcz we try to act polite lmao

Try to explore more, do you think shipping ppl always end up in sexual relationship. Some of us just want to see the love grow between them, and if there's a lovey dovey it's just a bonus. Try reading Shounen Ai tag since there's so much in this site, and you'll understand eventually. Try assuming ppl won't do you any good.
Bruh, that looked like a proposal lmao. My forbidden ship is sailing guys, don't let it bother U all