my nephew has like 5 scar lines all over his face coz he was so so so so hyper. he fell so many times from the bed and hit his face / head on the bed's edges. so yeah.. thats how it is , it cant be prevented sometimes. its normal. but it doesnt mean my sister wasnt taking care of him... ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
Similar thing happened. My dads ex girlfriend dropped my little brother because she sat him on a stool chair and he fell and hurt his head. It’s her first time being a mother. It’s not her fault she didn’t know. My brother kept saying mean things about her ever since but she’s gonna be a good mom, I know it. Accidents happen.
Yes! Things like this are bound to happen. Everyone has had to go through it at some point. For example, I have a really sad story, when my cousin was 5, my aunt took her eyes off her for a second as she was doing something and in that split second my cousin got into an accident and passed away. It stills scars my aunt up till now. But ever since that happened, she has been the most loving and caring aunt and mother in the world. She has 3 sons and all 3 of them are so intelligent and were brought up so well. She also takes such good care of my sister and I and she drops everything for us. My aunt learned from her mistakes and became a better parent. It definitely did not happen overnight, she still has her faults but that doesn’t change the fact that she did her best to become a better mom and she proved it by raising her sons well. Sometimes unfortunate things happen and it’s unavoidable, that’s just the way it’s meant to be. But there’s a reason that those things happen.
Yes! That definitely does not mean she is a bad mom. Taking care of children are hard and it’s normal for parents to make mistakes but with time they’ll definitely get the hang of it!
I’m so sorry about your aunt. I hope she and her family get through that traumatic event together. All of you have my condolences.
Thank you <3 it happened 25+ years ago and with time she came to terms with it and now all of us just look back at the happy moments we had together :D before this, my family used to pretend that it didn’t happen and all traces of my cousin were gone. I’m younger than her and I never knew about it until 10 years ago? But after my aunt came to terms with it, she definitely had a sense of relief and instead of being sad about it, she was much happier when talking about her daughter. She got the help she needed and decided to move forward and that really changed a lot of things for her.
I really happy for her. I couldn’t imagine losing a child. She is a very strong woman. To go through all of that, she is a true warrior.
yes, accident do happen. it's not like he intentionally dropped woojoo and hit his head. some commenters are not concerned enough that wooyoung was literally running to the hospital, he even forget to use slipper, his face is full of snots and he looks so messy. what kind of bad parent if he worried that much?
Seriously. I’ve read a few comments and you’re the only one who pointed that out.
<3 she definitely is, thank you <3
Exactly! They only see the things that he doesn’t do (esp the bad things) instead of the things that he does. A bad parent would just leave their child and not bother to take them to the hospital whereas Wooyoung did the opposite and it’s so clear how worried he was.
Those of y’all who’re saying Wooyoung is a bad mom are probably not even mothers OR has never had to take care of kids. Shit happens. Accidents happen. You can see how much he loves his baby and his husband. Knowing how to be a “perfect parent” isn’t going to happen overnight. Some people (in this case Wooyoung) take longer than others to master it, that doesn’t mean they’re a bad parent. My mom dropped me when I was a child, she has lost my sister at a carnival, but that never made her a bad mom bcs up till today she’s always been the no.1 support system for both my sister and I and I’m grateful for that. It’s easy for people to see things and judge without ever having to go through it/understand the person in the situation. Sometimes you got to put yourself in their shoes before judging.