my man looks like he’s pushing 40 yet he’s submissive like a high school girl…
I'm not exactly all the way caught up but are you seriously blaming the victim? When being raped people can freeze up and not be able to process what's going on some people don't e en realize what happened until afterwards. It's not easy for someone to speak up a about it. Some people don't say anything with the fear of being blamed. It takes courage and trust. It's not easy no matter how 'strong' he is anybody can be harassed or raped.
See I might be wrong but that's how this comment came off as to me
it’s not his fault at all
my problem is he defended the boss before he defends himself…
My other problem is that MC willingly REMAINED ‘buddy buddy’ with the boss even after boss harassed him.Which seriously doesn’t set/maintain the boundaries which are seriously needed
Obv boss should back tf up but since it’s BL …ugh…
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MC of this story is just another typical BL MC who can’t think for themselves (even tho he’s a grown ass man) and always needs someone to ‘rescue’ them.
Tbh, I totally agree with what you said about setting boundaries. Maybe your comment just came off as totally against the uke so it could be easily misinterpreted as "blaming". What the guy said above is also very correct. I have personally encountered and talked to rape victims and believe me or not, they actually had an orgasm (which is purely a physiological reaction) even tho they are against it or feel scared or unpleasant. This is one of the common reasons why rape victims blame themselves that's why they don't speak about it easily.
So he’s able to take a punch to the face for the boss, but can’t try to push him away when boss man is harassing him…. Yet he also won’t tell his BF the truth
please make it make sense…
The boss would’ve still been kissing on him, at this moment, if that guy didn’t interrupt…
You a grown ass man, you should have a fully developed backbone. At the very least be able to set a STRICT boundary…That is if he (MC) has any respect for himself or his bf…which i don’t think he does
Everyone needs to split up and go do some soul searching
(except boss someone needs to lock his ass up and throw away the key)