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Ur_bisexual_bi*ch July 16, 2023 4:40 pm

I can finally say what I've been meaning to for such a long time. I absolutely despise how everyone in the college dealt with the issue of a student sleeping with a professor.
Like both the professor and Baram were equally liable to be in a relationship, and anyone who knows Baram knows that she doesn't seem like the type of person to sleep with someone who's already in a relationship. However everyone solely blamed Baram for the adultery when the actual person responsible was the professor who never revealed his marital status. And it's not illegal since it's a college setting!!!
No one even considered her innocence before absolutely ruining her mental state and reputation.
Now onto the next point, I honestly don't want her to end up with any of the male leads. Like it's better for them to remain friends yk? Like not everything has to be romantic, especially in a story where the mc has had a traumatic past romance.
Sorry for this huge comment lol

Responses
    Ayy Fargoo July 18, 2023 6:39 pm

    Absolutely agree with you. Thank you for your input. Though I'm 100% sure the author gonna make her end up with them since readers what it and it's under romance.

    If she end up with one I have to pick either Seungyeon or Jaerim because they never force their feelings onto her or expect her to react to them. Seongjun is just a read flag irl too. He makes her feel so insecure and triggers her of her past. May I ask what you think? Despite you saying you don't want her end up with none of them, but if you have pick who would you choose?

    Ur_bisexual_bi*ch July 19, 2023 2:24 am
    Absolutely agree with you. Thank you for your input. Though I'm 100% sure the author gonna make her end up with them since readers what it and it's under romance. If she end up with one I have to pick either Se... Ayy Fargoo

    If I had to choose then I would've probably chosen the barista with blonde hair and a dog. More so since he seems very chill.

    But realistically I think she'll probably end up with the black haired friend (not the red flag one)

    AnhTran July 22, 2023 2:27 am

    Is it ethical for a professor to sleep with his/her students tho? I know they're both adult, but from what I understand, in some places that's kinda frown upon bc of the power dynamic. Like for example, bosses sleeping with employees or therapists sleeping with their patients. I remember reading somewhere that in Seattle (and probably other states too), therapists are prohibited to have relationship with their patients bc they are in a more vulnerable state . On baram's notes, I think other people misunderstood her bc of the rumors. I mean the daughter deliberately spreads those rumors to make her look bad. And since she took time off the school and didn't "clarify" the situation, people don't know the truth except her friends.

    Ur_bisexual_bi*ch July 22, 2023 2:32 am
    Is it ethical for a professor to sleep with his/her students tho? I know they're both adult, but from what I understand, in some places that's kinda frown upon bc of the power dynamic. Like for example, bosses ... AnhTran

    Yeah that's a given, but the thing that I wasn't satisfied with is the way the entire college dealt with the situation. They failed to give closure to both Baram and the Professor's daughter. Also if there is a suicide then isn't it investigated by the police as well?

    AnhTran July 22, 2023 5:30 am
    Yeah that's a given, but the thing that I wasn't satisfied with is the way the entire college dealt with the situation. They failed to give closure to both Baram and the Professor's daughter. Also if there is a... Ur_bisexual_bi*ch

    I also want to see the closure. Since the story hasn't ended yet., I think the closure would be clearing baram's name and maybe having an update on the professor's daughter? I was surprised to see they solved the "ghost" problem mid story. Imo, The problem is probably not over yet.

    It's also not very clear in the story, but my guess of what happened in the beginning is that the school found out about the relationship and probably fired/suspended the professor since he violated the code of conduct (being a professor but cheated on his wife while having a relationship with his student). This is probably why he committed suicide since he lost everything--job, reputation, respect, and family. His daughter couldn't bring herself to blame her dad, so she blamed it on baram and made rumors about her bc she wanted to believe she is the cause of everything.

    The story told one side of story which is baram's (understandably since she's a victim and the main lead), but it kinda failed to give a full picture bc I'm 100% sure it's not easy for the professor's family either. Even when it's not their fault, they probably suffered a lot as evident why his daughter acted that way. I mean the professor himself even committed suicide, so even if the story doesn't show it, he probably faced a lot of comments direct as him with people thinking he's a pervert who took advantage of his students. So yeah, with the upcoming chapters, maybe they will delve in to more of the backstory and give a closure, or they might completely disregard it and move on with baram's love story lol

    Ur_bisexual_bi*ch July 22, 2023 5:53 am
    I also want to see the closure. Since the story hasn't ended yet., I think the closure would be clearing baram's name and maybe having an update on the professor's daughter? I was surprised to see they solved t... AnhTran

    I really wish they do. Because I have high hopes for this story, and i really don't want it to be like a lot of other stories which just shove the problems under the rug because it will hinder the love story between protags.

    AnhTran July 22, 2023 6:00 am
    I really wish they do. Because I have high hopes for this story, and i really don't want it to be like a lot of other stories which just shove the problems under the rug because it will hinder the love story be... Ur_bisexual_bi*ch

    Yeah same