Sigh... but the sex is hot, what a waste... I won't read this again but the sex HNNNG !!!! (￣∇￣")
nah it's the uke fault too you don't get with married or take people period. For 5 years too that's a lot of time to reflect and cut off. People who only blame people who are in the relationship and not also people with get with others while knowing they are taken are hypocrites
Well, everyone got their opinions of course, but I could learn and change my mind after doing philosophy for more than 10 years, you learn a lot. I really was like you before... but now if my man cheat on me it will be 100% his fault not the other person, because it's my boyfriend who made a promise to me for loyalty and fidelity, not the other person. It can kinda be different if he cheats on me with my sister/cousin/bestfriend of course because they have loyalty and fidelity to you as well. But imagine the other person doesn't know your bf is married to you, how is this their fault ? And you can tell me that the uke knows is crush is married ? But then what ? The one who pledged loyalty to the wife is the husband, not the uke, the doing adultary and judged by the justice is the husband, and there's a reason for that, it's because it's his fault, nobody forced him to cheat, he did it because he wanted to. He could say no, but more than that he engaged the relationship himself, so it's his fault. But I can't really explain here, philo is long and hard. But still, I don't try to change your mind, I'm just explaining mine, cause every human has an opinion and they all have the right to have it. :)
understandable with the we all have our own opinion. but what I'm saying is that you don't get with people who are taken or married because that's normal decency I'm not saying the man in the relationship is not responsible. What I'm saying is that people who get with others knowing they are in a relationship are disgusting. I do agree with what you're saying too just that people tend to say we'll I'm not the one who cheated and expect to leave with 0 consequences
Yeah, I totally get your point. I don't take him responsible, but it's only my own opinion but I totally understand that you do and even a lot of people do too ! It's just my mindset now but it's just MINE of course so, yeah, I get what you're saying and I understand how you feel about it. Thanks for having an adult conversation with me without judging x) (▰˘◡˘▰)
A little late here, but in my opinion, it's more about self-respect and worth. If the person didn't know they were dating a cheater, it's not their fault, they may even be considered a victim. However, if a person is dating someone and knows that person is cheating, then that person is just reducing themselves to the same level as the cheater. Know your worth, don't be part of a scheme that destroys someone else's life. Sometimes it's better to let go even if you love them to death.
Sorry if everyone hate my comment but... I just can't like seme, I want him to suffer. And for the reminder, uke's at no fault for sleeping with his married boss, 100% of the fault is on the boss, because the only one cheating is the boss since he's the only one in a commitment. That said... seme's character and psychology piss me off so fucking much. Uke grow, alone, falling out of love of his cheating boss naturally, that's a bif deal. And they weren't even in a relationship since 6 months so... but seme is full of himself, forceful and so fucking FULL OF HIMSELF !!! I wanted uke to play really hard to get !!! And when seme played with a girl on purpose in front of a motel to make uke jealous UGH just fuck off bitch. (︶︿︶)＝凸