Question and please answer

cold hearted July 24, 2023 12:22 am

I don't fucking understand adults why do they hate kids that is born from an adulterous relationship? it's not the kid's fault its the 2 adults/cheaters at fault so why do they blame an innocent kid? like I'm talking about the victim blaming the kid saying that they are the cause for the family to break apart? OR the cheater saying shit like " u were the cause for my happy family to be destroyed" like why say shit like that when it wasn't the kid's fault it wasn't the kid that was telling u to cheat on your partner? like what the fuck is wrong with adults i get that u were betrayed but the kid was and is always innocent because they had no say in the matter on who motherfucker can birth them?

Responses
    Mehr.X July 24, 2023 6:15 am

    It's understandable, it's a feeling of betrayal of one parent, of course they don't have to hurt them but it's really difficult to love an illigitemate child, when it's the proof of one parent betrayal... It's probably like your world breaking apart, it's almost impossible to not hate

    Greyishin July 24, 2023 6:56 am
    It's understandable, it's a feeling of betrayal of one parent, of course they don't have to hurt them but it's really difficult to love an illigitemate child, when it's the proof of one parent betrayal... It's ... Mehr.X

    Yeah but those servants unrelated with their master's affair who do they think they are treated the child like that? Fcking psycho. Especially that bitch who claimed herself better than the duke's wife. Disgusting.

    Mehr.X July 24, 2023 2:22 pm
    Yeah but those servants unrelated with their master's affair who do they think they are treated the child like that? Fcking psycho. Especially that bitch who claimed herself better than the duke's wife. Disgust... Greyishin

    That's true but no one ever liked third parties and their children... No matter how innocent they are... Especially here since no one actually knows the truth

    And there's also people who likes to undermine people in order to be make themselves feel better

    Some actually do it as their loyalty toward the duke as they feel that she is the proof of her mother's infidelity towards their Master

    Sassy9 July 24, 2023 5:08 pm

    Cold hearted, you probably have the nicest heart out there lol but tell that to the society, because in their eyes, the child is not a child anymore, it's the walking and living sign of betrayal ¯_(ツ)_/¯ and is born with the parents genes so maybe will turn of like them in future (that's what society thinks) same goes to children born out of rape. Nobody accepts them.

    Mehr.X July 24, 2023 5:41 pm
    Cold hearted, you probably have the nicest heart out there lol but tell that to the society, because in their eyes, the child is not a child anymore, it's the walking and living sign of betrayal ¯_(ツ)_/¯ an... Sassy9

    Yes but they don't that they are the one to push those children into a criminal path...

    Society, people and mindset... We are despicable because we are human beings, no one is really nice or bad....

    I too wouldn't be able to accept an illigitemate child... I hate betrayal the most

    Just thinking about facing such a think makes me realize that I can't actually think properly if it happens to me...

    Genes has nothing to do with these things morals are developed depending on what peoples goes through how we live...

    This kind of bullying can actually destroy people

    cold hearted July 24, 2023 6:25 pm
    Cold hearted, you probably have the nicest heart out there lol but tell that to the society, because in their eyes, the child is not a child anymore, it's the walking and living sign of betrayal ¯_(ツ)_/¯ an... Sassy9

    i get where u all are coming from but does it make sense to hurt an innocent the kid did nothing it's just living even if the kid wasn't alive the partner would still cheat. I get the sense of betrayal but y hurt the kid that did nothing and is just existing like I'm dead confused on y do they want to hurt the kid it makes no sense to hurt the kid even if it was an illegitimate child. genes got nothing to do with the kid choosing the same path as it's parents in the end nobody gets hurt except for the kid like they can't even fight back why pick on the weak i get the saying the strong triumph over the weak but the kid did nothing bad. i'm also not being nice i genuinely find us as humans and society to be twisted to a fault i get that no 1 is perfect but i'm pretty sure we all have a brain so y hurt an innocent. Don't get we wrong we are all flawed in some way and i don't mind it that's what human is supposed to be but this flaw no 1 should embrace when they are faced with an illegitimate kid. the kid is innocent so the victim can't go on a rampage trying to kill the kid or ruin the kid's life it should duke it out with the 2 cheater/adult.

    A bit of a side note i have read way too many illegitimate children being abused also saw it in my life too. So i am genuinely confused about why the people who is supposed to have a brain be hating on the kid that can't do anything. it makes no sense it's also really petty.

    Mehr.X July 24, 2023 9:00 pm
    i get where u all are coming from but does it make sense to hurt an innocent the kid did nothing it's just living even if the kid wasn't alive the partner would still cheat. I get the sense of betrayal but y hu... cold hearted

    I do understand where you're coming fromi mean when it comes to brain not many people use it when necessary especially when emotions are involved

    I'm not trying to justify anyone, because what some people does is simply disgusting

    I for one would just ignore what I don't like, even if it's worst like hate or something... I won't waste energy on something I don't like... But many people can't...

    My grandpa has an illigitemate daughter, every legitimate children hates her but it just they never acted on it now my dad is at peace with her, my uncle just doesn't care but my aunt(legitimate one) just hate her to the core, reason well probably stupidity, jealousy.... Ummm maybe not being the only daughter... Her being more successful or something made it worse?

    Even though we're family I can't understand her reasoning for the hate... I find stupid but hey I can't just change shit about her... So yes some people are just evil strong hitting on the weak? Huh just pathetic people finding a sense of existence because they can't overcome the strong

    Maybe? Something like that

    I was a pretty person in my teen so I can't really think of any reasoning for bad behavior? For me I was just crazy rebellious... Ended with age? As for others probably evolved from wicked rebellion to wicked personality

    As brain it's just for decoration?

    All Seeing Eye… April 26, 2025 10:54 pm

    Because they’re STOOPID!