Standard medical practice at childbirth is putting priority of the mother's life over the baby's. It's been that way for a long time.
With the overturning of Roe vs Wade in the US, apparently people think this should be the opposite from the moment of conception to that very moment. *shrugs*
let’s be real.. if it was life or death, I’d rather my husband choose me over the baby. Idk if its selfish but we could always try for another