Messy but Team Beta

finjatortl August 3, 2023 12:40 am

I don't understand why people are hating on the Beta when YW the Alpha is so insensitive and flaunts his love for omegas in front of the beta. Yes, the beta is insecure but thats bc the YW has slept with different omegas almost daily over the past 10 years. And now bc YW says he loves him, the beta is supposed to believe him when time and time again YW reminds him that he can only trust pheromones.There's lots of other instances i can point out that shows YW isn't such a good guy and has some sort of omega/alpha superiority complex. With that said the beta isn't innocent either. He should have vented his concern and worries in a blunt manner so that YW can understand. I just want everyone to be happy at the end ( including Hayeon and the dominant omega) although I want YW to suffer a little and then get his happy ending lol.

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    Blacknitrate August 4, 2023 7:29 am

    Yup ur right. I don’t think Beta should be hated on, at least till the whole story is revealed, I find his behavior toxic right now and he is unstable in mind and they both need help.

    I’m glad you mentioned Alpha’s superiority complex, and the part about trusting pheromones. He loves him in a demented way and I think he wants to fully dominate beta, he oversteps his boundaries by covering unknowing beta with his pheromones as he can’t be marked, to make other alphas/omegas back off. This shows that his possessiveness is insecure/unhealthy. I’ve also noticed that Alpha regrets in his mind that his partner is a beta and that he’s always unsatisfied with their sex because of wanting beta to have an omega’s pheromones, these thoughts are toxic, if you love your partner it should be unconditional in regards to their identity you love them for who they are. And thoughts like these unknowingly get translated to actions. I feel like Beta knows what Alpha really wants. I do want to understand where his phobia stems from, whether from Alpha or his childhood. One thing that makes me really frustrated is that they each have problems and there’s not a lot of communication between them apart from sex

    LeRain August 4, 2023 9:40 am

    Based. Tbh the Alpha is so obsessed with omegas that when gets a little sniff of pheromones he loses his mind. He is a person that can’t be in a relationship with a beta since he doesn’t put in effort to have any self control. Beta should find someone else, that beefy alpha from work seemed like a nice person.

    A1rkyn August 4, 2023 8:29 pm
    Based. Tbh the Alpha is so obsessed with omegas that when gets a little sniff of pheromones he loses his mind. He is a person that can’t be in a relationship with a beta since he doesn’t put in effort to ha... LeRain

    true true. If other alphas can control their urge, why can't he if he really loves beta? that's what I keep saying but upon knowing much further that alpha was never satified with beta, he should just off himself somewhere else... hope beta finds someone who will love him for him.

    Stan123 August 5, 2023 7:18 pm
    Based. Tbh the Alpha is so obsessed with omegas that when gets a little sniff of pheromones he loses his mind. He is a person that can’t be in a relationship with a beta since he doesn’t put in effort to ha... LeRain

    Like that's what I don't understand about YW. If he loves omegas so much then why try to date and confess his "love" to the Beta? Beta deserves a better partner bc the poor mental state he's currently in is mostly due to YW. Also I thought about JO pairing with Hayeon but he seems too much like a fluffy puppy for the jaded JO . If anything it'll be nice for them to be friends so that Hayeon can help the beta.

    Stan123 August 5, 2023 7:28 pm
    Yup ur right. I don’t think Beta should be hated on, at least till the whole story is revealed, I find his behavior toxic right now and he is unstable in mind and they both need help.I’m glad you mentioned ... Blacknitrate

    I understand if someone dislikes JO but I don't think he should be hated on. They both need individual and couples therapy bc they have very deep seeded issues. I mentioned this in another comment but I just flat-out don't understand why he "loves" the beta when he obviously adores and is addicted to omegas. Like what makes JO so special that he's the only beta in YWs life? And if he regrets that his partner is a beta and he's unsatisfied then just let him go so both people can find better partners. A part of me wants to see them live happily ever after but I really don't see how they can be end game bc chap 65 - 69 was very disappointing to read. Like I kept thinking 'YW effing control yourself you pathetic pos.' LOL.

    LeRain August 5, 2023 10:08 pm
    I understand if someone dislikes JO but I don't think he should be hated on. They both need individual and couples therapy bc they have very deep seeded issues. I mentioned this in another comment but I just fl... Stan123

    Yeah, honestly I don’t think alpha loves beta since he doesn’t bother to control himself around omegas. He’s not serious at all. Them ending up together is a bad ending, alpha will just go around sleeping with every omega he sees and beta will just go down the self destruction path

    Stan123 August 5, 2023 11:27 pm
    Yeah, honestly I don’t think alpha loves beta since he doesn’t bother to control himself around omegas. He’s not serious at all. Them ending up together is a bad ending, alpha will just go around sleeping... LeRain

    Someone told me that the author said the beta won't turn into an omega. So the only way I see them being happy together is if Alpha through some miracle or accident loses his ability to sense pheromones, and then he apologizes for being dense, and works on building trust with the beta.